Zhao Yinan has not been able to get along with his father Zhao Benshan day and night since he was a child. Zhao Benshan, as a well-known comedian, travels outside filming and performing all year round. In the huge home, Zhao Yinan and his sister can only face the empty hall and corridor. Every time Zhao Benshan comes home from work, although the family is warm, for the children who are still growing, his father is a guest who has only seen him for a long time. 
In a blink of an eye, Zhao Yinan went to school, and Zhao Benshan was still the first at work. Unlike other children who have their fathers sent to school, Zhao Yinan is the driver at home every day. In a certain final exam, Zhao Yinan happily wanted to report the good news to his father, but after dialing it, he remembered that he was busy in the field. The smile on Zhao Yinan's face, who hung up **, dimmed a little. I haven't seen Zhao Benshan for a longer time when Zhao Yinan was fourteen years old. Zhao Benshan has been working abroad for six whole months! When he finally finished his work and hurried home to reunite with his children, he was greeted not by the cheers and hugs he imagined. On the contrary, both siblings were a little rusty and even avoided their father's intimate behavior. Zhao Benshan, who has always been calm, had red eyes when he boarded. Only then did he realize that when he was fully committed to his career, the growth of his children was missed and forgotten by him. 
Since then, Zhao Benshan has slowed down and left more time and energy for his family. He is glad that he is in the entertainment industry and can buy a spacious and comfortable residence in Beijing and get along with his children day and night. In the past few years, he has watched Zhao Yinan grow from an immature boy to a heroic teenager, and he is overjoyed with his growth every day. This love almost made up for the scarcity of companionship and care in the past. Under the meticulous care of his father, Zhao Yinan has gradually developed a pampered temperament since childhood. The 26-year-old Zhao Yinan has already stepped into the ranks of adults. Perhaps because he was born in a wealthy family, he has a sense of superiority since he was a child. In addition, his father Zhao Benshan also loved him and respected him, and praised him to the sky. 
So Zhao Yinan longed to become a figure like his father, or even more outstanding than his father, and have a place in society. With the ambition unique to young people, Zhao Yinan decided to open a top fitness club in Beijing to enter this potential blue ocean market. He spent 200 million yuan on initial investment in decoration, operation and staffing, and wanted to make this fitness club a leader in the industry and famous. On the eve of the opening, Zhao Yinan was even more extravagant and wasteful, spending a lot of money to invite celebrities in the circle to help, and rented luxury cars to parade. When the fitness club officially opened, it was full of people for a while, attracting the attention of many passers-by. Who knows that behind the glitz is a lot of debts. The initial boom in the crowds of fitness clubs was short-lived. Due to Zhao Yinan's lack of management experience, he did not do enough in terms of pricing strategy and member retention, and the consumer group was already relatively segmented. 
It didn't take long for business to start going downhill, the capital chain was tight, and employees were leaving. Zhao Yinan was in a hurry, looking for people everywhere to invest in his life, and desperately compressing costs. In the end, he had to use the trick of false prosperity and hired people to pretend to be customers to deceive Zhao Benshan's supervision, but after all, he deceived himself. Under the pressure of his father, Zhao Yinan had to explain the failure of the business clearly. The passion that once burned has been annihilated in the ups and downs of reality. Guo Qilin, who is the second generation of the entertainment industry with Zhao Yinan, has embarked on a life path of steady progress. The two are the same age, but Guo Qilin has become well-known in film and television dramas, and many works have a good reputation at the box office. 
The key is that he has created a screen image with a distinct personality and personal charm, so that the audience will be infectious and laughing when they watch his works. In contrast, Zhao Yinan is just a gentleman hiding in the shadow of his father in the eyes of the outside world. The story of failing to start a business at the age of 26 and then living a luxurious life is all marked with such impressive labels. In addition, he has a straightforward personality, and his statements on online forums often attract criticism. Such a comparison invisibly hit Zhao Yinan, making him a little confused in terms of life orientation and sense of achievement. But Zhao Yinan's father, family and friends still support him wholeheartedly. They believe that Zhao Yinan has a strong independent will and responsibility, and these good qualities are due to Zhao Benshan's tutoring and influence. 
Although the business failed, Zhao Yinan also firmly believed that as long as he did not give up, there would still be a day to raise his eyebrows. Guo Qilin's precocious success inspired him to work harder, watch the ups and downs of life with a normal heart, and deal with the situation calmly. has such a superstar father as Zhao Benshan as a backer, which also gives Zhao Yinan great confidence, so that he has no lack of confidence in the process of struggle. After all, Zhao Yinan's life has just begun, he has enough time to accumulate his experience, and he believes that he will be able to achieve his own achievements with strength and courage. This firm belief supports Zhao Yinan to continue to move forward. The image that Zhao Yinan shows on weekdays is inseparable from the labels of "luxury" and "spending money". His lavish consumption Xi and extravagant lifestyle have all created the impression of a wealthy and willful child to the outside world. 
However, in life, we often say that we don't know our character if we don't see ourselves. It is unfair to judge a young man who is still very young from the superficial extravagance. In fact, in Zhao Yinan's inner world, he still retains his kind and innocent nature. For example, in the face of public welfare activities organized by teachers, he always generously donated money to help students; When a disaster occurred somewhere in China, he also took the initiative to donate hundreds of thousands of yuan to help the construction. Behind these actions is Zhao Yinan's inner kindness. He grew up in a superior environment, but he did not develop a cold-eyed and indifferent style like many rich second generations. Instead, he pays attention to social issues and takes the initiative to do his part. This is exactly what needs to be noticed. 
So, why did Zhao Yinan show the iron-walled and self-righteous personality described above in public? There is a reason for this. He grew up with both parents and pampered children, and studied abroad for many years, so his understanding of Chinese society is still a superficial impression. After returning to China, he wanted to start a business, but he ran into a wall and failed, and he was a little radical under the blow. This is exactly what Zhao Yinan needs to improve in the process of growing up, and we should not look at this young man who is still growing up in isolation. Zhao Yinan is just 26 years old, standing at the starting point of life, and the road ahead is still uncertain. After experiencing the frustration of entrepreneurship and public criticism, he may have been confused and inferior. 
But Zhao Yinan is not a pampered glass greenhouse flower, these inevitable winds, frosts, rain and snow will eventually sharpen him and achieve him. Zhao Yinan knows that he still has too much to learn and Xi and grow. He is still young, and failure is only a necessary process in life, and it must not stifle his desire to strive for progress. With the care and encouragement of his family, friends and Zhao Benshan, Zhao Yinan re-examined himself and found that he was blind and sloppy in the process of starting a business. These precious experiences will make him more mature and stable in the future life path. Now, he is gradually optimizing his life vision and value orientation by reading, thinking, and asking himself. Zhao Yinan is eager to calmly face the criticism of the outside world and regain his passion for doing things through this self-adjustment and sublimation, but he will no longer be as reckless as before. 
He constantly warned himself to have both the persistence of ideals and the compromise of reality. In this process, Zhao Yinan is growing and maturing day by day. The road sign of life is inserted not far ahead, and Zhao Yinan took a solid step towards the goal. He knows that there is a long way to go, and only by forging ahead can he reach the wonderful scenery. What kind of family environment did Zhao Yinan grow up in? This just laid the foundation for the extravagant side of his character. As a well-known celebrity in the entertainment industry, Zhao Benshan's career has reached its peak, and his wealth is unprecedented. And he was busy with work in Zhao Yinan's childhood, and he didn't care enough for his children, until he went home for a period of time to turn against his two siblings, which became a turning point in his life of regret.
From then on, Zhao Benshan was determined to give his children 100% love and do everything he could to compensate them. As a result, Zhao Yinan's material enjoyment in life is rich, and his spiritual world is carefree because of his father's care. This double favor of "power and doting" has created Zhao Yinan's extravagant consumption mode and self-styled personality in the future. When Zhao Yinan decided to start a business, he spared no effort to invest a huge amount of money, hoping to reach the sky in one step. The result of the defeat was undoubtedly a heavy blow. So he chose to seek psychological comfort through a luxurious lifestyle, which was his reflexive self-protection mechanism. At the same time, behind these superficial phenomena, Zhao Yinan, as a young man who has grown up normally, has become more resilient in the kindness and firmness of his inner world.
Therefore, Zhao Yinan's life cannot be judged straightforwardly. Judging from the environment and process in which he grew up, all kinds of behaviors have their inevitable background reasons. These factors combine to create a three-dimensional Zhao Yinan, an individual, and he is constantly improving and optimizing himself. This is Zhao Yinan's vivid flesh-and-blood growth story.