The marriage was reached in a quarrel, and after giving birth, she was "forced" by her husband to go out to pick up the play.
When the audience first heard the couple's way of getting along, they couldn't help but feel embarrassed.
Everyone praised one after another, and when they understood the good intentions behind their husbands, "they really love their wives like their lives".
Cao Ying, the former first sister of CCTV, and her husband Wang Ban are known as a model couple in the entertainment industry, what is their married life like?
Wang Ban, born in 1971, was successfully admitted to ** Drama Academy at the age of 16 and became the youngest student in the class.
His classmates included Hu Jun, Xu Fan and He Bing, who were red and purple at the time.
Wang Ban immediately became the leading actor of Beijing Renyi stage drama after graduation, thanks to his strength and luck.
Song Dandan, Lan Yingying, and Hu Jun, a classmate at the time, were all colleagues during that period.
Although he did not become as popular as his classmate Hu Jun, his love story with his wife Cao Ying can be described as enviable.
Wang Ban and his wife Cao Ying met at the filming site of the "Airport Tower" program team in 1994.
Wang Ban was determined to develop his career at that time, and he generously said to his friend: "I want to concentrate on my career, and I will never talk about my girlfriend." ”
As soon as Wang Ban finished saying this, he turned around, only to find that he could no longer take his gaze off.
Wang Ban spotted the girl in the narrow alley at a glance as she jumped happily and flashed by.
According to Wang Ban's later interview in "Very Quiet Distance", he expressed his feelings of feeling low air pressure and depressed emotions at that time.
Everyone's expression of excitement may be different, but the actions of liking a person are similar.
Wang Ban couldn't help the curiosity in his heart, turned to the director, and asked a little shyly: "Who is this lady?"”
After the director gave Cao Ying a detailed introduction, he immediately asked her when she joined the group.
The question of whether Wang Ban, who is in his 20s, really experienced love at first sight can be traced back many years, and he can still clearly describe the way he dressed when he first met Cao Ying. If this is not love, then what is it?
When recalling that day, perhaps Cao Ying has long forgotten what she was wearing, but Wang Ban can vividly describe it: "It's a pair of beige bib pants with waist-length hair, which looks very **."
What did Cao Ying say about this first meeting?
She said she didn't know anything about it.
As if one party didn't notice, it passed by;The other side is deeply engraved in the heart, which makes people's hearts move.
As the crew started filming, the actors joined the crew one after another, and soon they met for the second time, which was a continuation of the first meeting.
A 19-year-old young girl, her first impression of Wang Ban, who is in her 20s, is like an elder on the set.
She greeted the staff on the set warmly, and when almost everyone on the set had mingled with them, they began to joke and frolic with each other.
She noticed a person next to her, silently watching, never speaking.
Sometimes he even met Wang Ban, he just glanced at it in a hurry and left quickly.
Cao Ying was surprised, and thought that Wang Ban was superior, so she didn't step forward to disturb.
Later, when the experience was mentioned in an interview, the moderator asked curiously, "What kind of strategy is this?"Is it to get away with it?”
Chen Ken said: "When the person you like is in front of you, you will feel very nervous and afraid to expose your inner thoughts. Wang Ban also thinks so.
They don't have much time together, one is reluctant to take the initiative, and the other chooses to stay silent.
Even if you don't take the initiative, one person's love for another person cannot be hidden.
Although Cao Ying has never dared to take the initiative to take the first step, in the long-term relationship on the set, she has already taken root in Wang Ban's heart.
Just when everyone thought that the story would come to an abrupt end after the crew finished playing.
When Wang Ban was spending the Mid-Autumn Festival together on the set, he quietly planned a courtship event, which was really unexpected.
rarely intersects with Wang Ban in daily life, so Cao Ying doesn't feel how much Wang Ban likes her.
There may be some relaxation in the heart, but it is not revealed in the expression.
Wang Ban understood Cao Ying's concerns in her heart, and after she confessed.
For the girl she likes, she has already expressed her liking, how can she be willing to give up and not pursue her.
Wang Ban and Cao Ying maintain a relationship of friends, and at the same time secretly plan to increase their chances of getting along with each other.
Wang Ban and Cao Ying are once again fortunate to collaborate on another drama.
The train carried the crew to Shanxi and rumbled. When the train returned, the love between Wang Ban and Cao Ying had silently sprouted.
Of course, there are not so many coincidences in the world.
Wang Ban was working silently in private, if he had to say it.
He strongly recommended Cao Ying to the director, and finally the director agreed.
In the interview, Cao Ying also mentioned: "If we hadn't starred in the later drama at that time, our lives might have been completely different......."”
What happened to make Wang Ban's position in Cao Ying's heart directly reversed?
Cao Ying, who was a teenager at the time, needed to play the mother of a child of several decades in the play, but due to her lack of experience, her performance on the performance scene can be imagined.
The director told Wang Ban to come downstairs to the lounge, after a few scenes.
Wang Ban saw that the table was full of wine and delicacies, and immediately understood that this was a "Hongmen banquet".
Sure enough, the directors said with emotion at the banquet: "Cao Ying is too young, and it is difficult for her to play the role of a seventy or eighty-year-old man well." ”
Wang Ban subconsciously turned to Cao Ying and said, "The problem of the rehearsal order is not on her. ”
For the sake of Cao Ying, Wang Ban fought desperately on the basis of reason, and finally made a "military order".
When Wang Ban later mentioned the argument back then, he was ashamed to admit that "it was really inappropriate at that time."
When you are young, is love just impulsive from the heart?
Under the repeated assurances of Wang Ban, the director team decided to keep Cao Ying for the time being.
Wang Ban worked hard to train Cao Ying to ensure that her performance was exciting.
On the one hand, he was reluctant to hurt Cao Ying, and on the other hand, he chose to bear the pressure himself.
He chose to pull Cao Ying to the words every day, let her perform for him, and give her advice.
The crew was finally completed, but Wang Ban received an evaluation from the director team, which made him cry and laugh: "You are not as good as Cao Ying." ”
He is mainly committed to helping Cao Ying in this play, so his performance is not so good when he is on the court.
Cao Ying was quietly moved by the evaluation of the director team, and she silently remembered Wang Ban's help.
Worth everything, we were all lucky.
Under the supervision and help of Wang Ban, Cao Ying's acting skills have made great progress.
Under Wang Ban's meticulous guidance, Cao Ying also realized this man's deep affection for herself.
At this time, she was convinced that Wang Ban really liked her, and she quietly fell in love with this man.
When the crew took the return train again, Wang Ban and Cao Ying's hearts were already closely connected.
Their collaboration in 1997 in "Chasing Melbourne" and in 2000 in "Pretty Girl" made their relationship stronger and contributed to the "golden and jade relationship".
In 2003, when the press conference of the TV series "Who Loves You the Most" was held, Wang Ban and Cao Ying appeared on the stage together as partners and sweetly disclosed their relationship.
After Wang Ban and Cao Ying fell in love, their relationship did not become estranged, on the contrary, it became sweeter.
Wang Ban firmly believed in his heart that he must marry Cao Ying.
Due to the busy work of the theater, occasionally the two will be separated for a long time before they can meet, but they still choose to maintain each other's relationship through **.
The call was too long, resulting in a huge number of batteries purchased by both parties piling up.
With the continuous advancement of technology, from using a battery mobile phone to owning a video mobile phone, the relationship between the two has become increasingly firm.
The relationship between Wang Ban and Cao Ying did not cause any delay to their respective careers.
To love someone is to expect each other to progress together and become better.
With the help of mutual support, Wang Ban's theatrical works have become more and more, and Cao Ying has also participated in activities in many fields such as actor and host.
Wang Ban won the ratings championship in 2008 for playing the role of "Shao Di" in "Top Secret Escort".
Cao Ying also released a new book "Dudu Doll" in the same year, so she was named one of the most active and versatile artists in the entertainment industry.
In 2009, no one could have predicted that Wang Ban and Cao Ying would actually get a marriage certificate after a quarrel.
In real life, we don't have the kind of romantic TV series that are common in marriage proposals, and we don't have the gorgeous weddings that people yearn for.
Wang Ban and Cao Ying's wedding was not carefully considered, but Cao Ying recklessly married Wang Ban like this.
Maybe it's because in Wang Ban's heart, from the day they got together, he has determined his feelings for Cao Ying.
He has always firmly chosen Cao Ying, so he has long been psychologically prepared for marriage.
Ms. Cao said she couldn't remember what they were arguing about.
Every couple can get along differently.
Some people live a calm and welcoming life, respecting each other and making them feel at home.
Wang Ban and Cao Ying are like some people, they often quarrel, but their relationship is stronger.
We may not know enough about how couples get along, but we must not doubt the love between them.
Despite this, an incident about Cao Ying's attitude towards childbirth after marriage finally aroused deep doubts from the audience.
Marriage is often described as the grave of love.
Only two months after marriage, not long after Cao Ying gave birth to a child, she was forced by her husband Wang Ban to leave home to go out to film.
The audience expressed their dissatisfaction with Wang Ban's husband's behavior, but they didn't expect that this was actually Wang Ban's deep love for his wife Cao Ying.
Cao Ying, who talked about this moment, showed a happy expression on her face in the show, so is this really the case?
Wang Ban found out one day that after Cao Ying gave birth to a child, she suddenly began to cry inexplicably.
At first, he was only excited about his wife's birth of a child, so he carefully took care of her emotions.
He hoped that he would get better soon.
He was very troubled that his wife was not only not ** under his careful care, but her condition was getting worse day by day.
Cao Ying was at the peak of her career at the time, and in fact, having a child was a huge pressure for her.
She was looking forward to the arrival of her child, but at the same time, she began to hesitate about how her career should be arranged.
The mother is already prone to huge psychological pressure after giving birth, not to mention Cao Ying, a mother who has long been worried.
The photographer saw that Cao Ying was still putting on makeup, so he first called Wang Ban to take a photo with the child, and when the child was about to go out to shoot at the full moon.
Wang Ban hugged his son, and at this moment, he watched his wife suddenly start to cry.
He immediately stepped forward to ask, but Cao Ying said that she was very sad because the first group photo of her son was not taken with her.
Cao Ying later faced everything calmly and said with a smile: "But I don't know why I unconsciously shed tears for such a reason." ”
Wang Ban noticed a series of unusual changes in his wife, which reminded him of the postpartum depression case he had seen on his mobile phone before.
He thinks that his wife should get rid of the shackles of housework and find something that interests her.
Cao Ying was puzzled by her husband's decision to let her go to work.
As a mother, she thinks that the child is too young and must be with the child.
Even the mother-in-law who takes care of the child at home supports her daughter to recuperate at home.
Wang Ban's thoughts were incomprehensible to them.
Wang Ban finally couldn't bear it anymore, because he saw his wife's mood becoming more and more melancholy day by day.
In fact, the mother-in-law has been taking care of her daughter's life and has also noticed the subtle changes in her daughter.
Wang Ban and his mother-in-law hit it off and decided to "expell" Cao Ying, who was unwilling to go out to work, from the house.
He told his wife to let her go out and work because he was there for everything in the house.
Cao Ying eventually began to open up and get in touch with the outside world, thanks to her husband's strong support.
As she came into contact with more crew members, Cao Ying's attitude gradually changed.
She suddenly realized that she did feel like she had changed a lot in the postpartum period.
Wang Ban's husband was fortunate to notice a change in himself.
Someone who loves himself so deeply and saves himself from those depressive days in time.
After understanding Wang Ban's good intentions, Cao Ying finished the crew's work, then rushed home and hugged him tightly.
Cao Ying later expressed her great gratitude to her husband on many occasions and praised him for always tolerating herself.
When Cao Ying first started dating Wang Ban, there were many rumors that Wang Ban was climbing high.
When Cao Ying first changed careers to become an actor, it was actually Wang Ban who gave her a lot of help and guidance in private.
Cao Ying's dedication is full of women's perseverance and perseverance, she is not only the host of CCTV, but also involved in the performing arts industry.
Until she met Wang Ban, he was like a big tree, providing support for Cao Ying.
She has always been able to be a "princess" in her heart, which is Wang Ban's belief.
After his father's death, Wang Ban received the support of his wife Cao Ying and decided to take his mother home to live.
Her mother had always been worried about affecting Wang Ban's life, so she proposed to return to her hometown.
Wang Ban often persuaded his mother to live in peace, and often asked his wife Cao Ying to accompany her mother to go shopping and buy clothes.
Under his mediation, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law gets along like a biological mother and daughter.
Wang Ban in the eyes of his wife is a virtuous husband, and in his mother's heart, he is also a filial son.
At present, the children of Wang Zihan, Cao Ying and Wang Ban have entered the age of 11.
The couple happily calls their child "Prince" as part of their happiness.
Because her son is handsome, Cao Ying often shares the bits and pieces of her happy life on social platforms and posts their **.
Cao Ying took a family of three on the CCTV stage in 2018 and happily sang "Blind Date and Love" holding hands.
Wang Zihan participated in the movie "Mom, I Miss You" directed by Cao Ying in 2019, thus becoming a real "second generation star".
Cao Ying recently not only shared a recent photo of a family of three on Children's Day, but also released a new single "When the Wind Rises" on Weibo.
The happy life of Cao Ying and Wang Ban makes us sincerely envious, and their lives are getting better and better.
remembered that when they first came together, some people even thought that Wang Ban was clinging to CCTV's first sister.
However, they didn't care about these rumors, on the contrary, Wang Ban has been seriously guiding Cao Ying's development after entering the showbiz.
It is good love to make progress together with each other. Only evenly matched love can go further, just like Wang Ban and Cao Ying.
I wish Wang Ban's family life is more satisfying, and he can create more wonderful works to give back to us.