Busy running around every day, a few days ago finally had time to calm down, with the child to have dinner, accidentally found that the child with chopsticks to pick up vegetables is very laborious, after observation came to the conclusion: the child with chopsticks is not right, the hand holding chopsticks is too high, hand strength is not enough.
At first, I thought that I had taught my children how to use chopsticks a long time ago, and I had also equipped my children with auxiliary tools to learn chopsticks. After preaching to the children, the children who are in adolescence are also stubborn, and the meal is unhappy. After calming down, after some hard thinking and meditation, I found that the problem is, the child is growing, many habits are not fully formed, as a parent, my follow-up auxiliary guidance is lacking, after time precipitation, the child's bad habit of using chopsticks is formed.
After reflection, apologize to the child first, and then give the child the correct use of chopsticks again, and inform the child of the consequences of improper use, hoping that the child can pay more attention. But I know that such a simple lecture is likely to have no obvious effect on the correction of the bad habits that the child has formed. Because children's education is a river, not only the source is as clear as promised, but also one point, that is, the accompaniment, guidance, and education of parents are more important. If parents accompany and guide the child's growth, this process is missing. It will only frustrate the child's growth.
Parental companionship and guidance: the key to cultivating excellent children.
Parents are the most important teachers in the process of children's growth, and it is the most important responsibility of parents to accompany and guide their children.
In the process of children's growth, the way parents educate and accompany them has a crucial impact on their children's growth. The companionship and guidance of parents can help children establish good study habits and cultivate children's autonomy and sense of responsibility. In addition, parents can also help their children develop good morals and values through companionship and guidance. The companionship and guidance of parents can not only strengthen the parent-child relationship, but also help children better cope with challenges and difficulties as they grow up. Parents can understand their children's needs and ideas through communication with their children, and provide necessary support and assistance to their children. In the process of accompanying and guiding their children, parents also need to continuously learn and improve their own education level to better cope with various challenges in the process of children's growth.
How should parents play their role in raising an excellent child?
First of all, parents should respect their children's individuality. Every child has their own unique interests, hobbies and strengths, and parents should fully understand their children's characteristics and encourage them to pursue their dreams. For example, if a child likes to draw, parents can provide him with the resources and time to draw so that he can find his sense of value in painting. Secondly, parents should be actively involved in their children's activities. Whether it's learning or playing, parents should be as involved as possible and share the joy and harvest with their children. For example, when the child is playing the piano, parents can sit next to them and listen, give affirmation and support. Finally, parents should guide their children's success. A child's success is a long and difficult process, and parents need to guide and motivate their children so that they can be clear about their goals and directions. For example, when a child encounters a difficult situation, parents can encourage him to face it bravely and provide solutions to solve the problem.
Parents accompanying their children's growth is really not a simple action to accompany them, and the companionship and guidance of parents is an indispensable part of their children's growth. Parents should accompany their children to grow up, become their growth partners, and help them become excellent talents with a sense of responsibility and responsibility. At the same time, parents should also pay attention to the improvement of their own quality, continue to learn and explore educational methods suitable for their children, and provide better guidance and support for their children's growth. It is also necessary to be a growth partner for children and accompany them as they grow. As a parent, on the premise of doing a good job of yourself, doing your best to accompany your child's growth is a question that every responsible parent should think about.
END - I am learning to paint for the baby, I always firmly believe that the newborn baby is like a blank piece of paper, an uncultivated fertile soil, parents can only practice "painting" diligently, in order to draw a smooth road for the baby.