In recent years, many women have developed a strong resentment towards narcissistic and arrogant men, who they believe are self-righteous and think that they are the best people in the world, although they have no special merits. Sometimes, however, we misjudge these men because they are not acting in the way they are, but in the influence of their parents. When a child achieves something, some uninformed parents may behave very conceitedly and completely unaware that there are other good people in the world. This attitude can lead to unfair treatment of the child's other half, leaving the girl speechless and disgusted. Such an attitude will never lead to a better partner, it will only make people feel ridiculous and self-aware.
The protagonist of the story, Liu Tian and her boyfriendZhou YangAfter three years together, they were originally going to get married, butZhou YangI have always felt that the gap between me and Liu Tian is still very big, and I am unwilling to get married. Liu Tian understoodZhou YangBut she does not care about family and personal conditions, but is willing to accompanyZhou YangGrow together. However, the development of things made them get married early, andZhou YangThe mother also came. Zhou Yang's mother was very unfriendly to Liu Tian, she felt that Liu Tian was a tuckerZhou Yang's shameless woman also said that Liu Tian was here to seduceZhou YangTarget. Liu Tian tried to explain and justify, butZhou YangMother didn't want to listen. In the end, Liu Tian revealed his annual salary of 500,000Zhou Yang's mother realized that she was wrong in evaluating Liu Tian.
Zhou Yang's mother is a typical phoenix mother-in-law, she only values her son's monthly salary, but she doesn't care about Liu Tian's conditions and character. She was reluctant to accept Liu Tian because she felt that Liu Tian was a woman with a bad appearance and no job, and thought that she wanted to take advantage of her son. But this is only her subjective assumption, and there is no actual basis. This way of evaluating is unfair and discriminatory against women.
From Liu Tian's point of view, she didn't careZhou YangI just hope to be able to work hard with him to grow. She was willing to accept itZhou YangI also hope to get his respect and support. ButZhou Yang's mother was unwilling to accept Liu Tian, and even insulted and blamed her. This behavior is actually an unfair treatment of women and a disrespect for their son's choices.
In this story, we should reflect on the fact that a person's achievements do not represent everything about him, nor can they be used as a standard for evaluating a person. The value of a person lies in his character, personality, and care and respect for others. We should not be disrespectful to a person just because they are on good terms, but we should treat everyone with equality and respect.
This story tells us that we can't disdain others just because they are in good condition, and we can't evaluate the value of others based on one's conditions. The value of a person lies in his character, personality, and care and respect for others. We should treat everyone with equality and respect, rather than judging a person by conditions. Only in this way can we build social relations of equality, respect and mutual understanding.