If you don t graduate, you ll lose , a freshman at Zhejiang University just received an admission l

Mondo Education Updated on 2024-01-30

"If you don't graduate, you'll lose", a freshman at Zhejiang University just received an admission letter, but was reprimanded by his parents

For students, university life is both desirable and confusing. Unlike my life in junior high school and high school, I no longer have a teacher's ear to hear my life in college, and I have lost the careful care and nagging of my parents.

After the college entrance examination, many students should have now received their admission letters, and this moment is undoubtedly the most exciting. This letter is the fruit of years of hard work, and getting the admission letter means that you are about to embark on the road to university study.

Especially for those students who have been admitted to first-class universities such as Zhejiang University and Hunan University, this is really a joyful thing and enviable.

However, this year, there is a real case to share, a new student at Zhejiang University who received the admission letter, but it was difficult to feel happy, and even had a conflict with his parents. He was reprimanded by his parents, what is the root of the problem?

The freshmen of Zhejiang University received the admission letter but were blamed: "I will lose before I graduate".

The day of the start of college is getting closer and closer, and there is another group of students who are about to embark on the journey of college. In China, there is a traditional concept that "it is good to be at home for a thousand days, but it is difficult to go out for a while". Although parents don't want their children to develop the habit of splurging, they prefer not to make life too difficult for their children.

Parents always do their best to provide for the living expenses of their students. There is a freshman who is about to enter Zhejiang University, his parents are usually engaged in some small business, and the business has not been very good in the past two years. The monthly salary is about 3,000 yuan, and the couple's total income is less than 7,000 yuan, and there are two children in the family.

After in-depth discussions with parents, it was decided to give the students 2,000 yuan per month for living expenses. However, unexpectedly, instead of showing gratitude for this parental care, the student sparked a family quarrel. Students think that the monthly living expenses of 2,000 yuan cannot guarantee their livelihood, and they cannot buy their favorite things, let alone have dinner with their classmates.

There is even a blunt statement that giving 2,000 yuan for living expenses is to make me starve to death?You need at least 4,000 yuan, otherwise how can you maintain a normal life?These words made the parents feel displeased.

The student mentioned that when he was in college, he not only did not spend his family's money, but also earned some money for his family through work-study. His parents were furious about this, accusing him of being a loser before he graduated, calling him a loser. They emphasized that 2,000 yuan is already the limit of the family, and they can take it if they like it.

In fact, 2,000 yuan for living expenses in college is more than enough. Because the university does not need to pay extra for the room, the main cost is the cost of food, and the meals in the university cafeteria are affordable, 30 yuan a day is enough. It's only 900 yuan a month.

The remaining more than 1,000 pieces are enough to buy clothes and have dinner with classmates. Parents work hard to earn money, and students should understand and appreciate their parents more, and learn to be grateful and mature.

As an adult college student, it is possible to get in touch with society through formal channels and strive to improve the cost of living.

In my opinion, each student's upbringing environment and family background are different, and parents should make specific judgments based on their own family situation. Students from disadvantaged families should not compare living expenses, but should understand the actual situation of their own families and be more considerate of their parents.

If you want to have more living expenses and improve the quality of life in college, in addition to asking your parents, students can also find some formal ways to increase their living expenses through their own efforts.

College students can provide tutoring services to junior students in their spare time to earn some extra pocket money and relieve the pressure of living expenses. In a typical second-tier city, the cost of a tutor is usually around 100 yuan per hour.

Since college students have a relatively relaxed course schedule, they have plenty of time to work part-time. In this way, you can not only improve your overall quality, but also realize your own value by tutoring others.

In addition, students with good writing can also use their writing ability to create through the **platform** and earn manuscript fees. In the case of high reading, it is perfectly feasible to earn 400 500 yuan a day. This is not only a play on personal ability, but also provides additional funds for improving the quality of life**.

Here is a reminder for students who are accustomed to asking their parents for large living expenses to understand the pressure of their parents. For students with average family conditions, they should be more grateful for the hard work of their parents. If you want to improve your standard of living, you can consider looking for a suitable part-time job to accumulate more social experience without affecting your studies. Bear hardships and stand hard work, in order to better realize your personal value in the university years.

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