Erbao s pocket money has finally risen to 20 yuan

Mondo Parenting Updated on 2024-01-30

Last time, I said below the article that Erbao's pocket money had risen from 10 yuan a week to 20 yuan, and everyone wanted to know how Erbao negotiated. I'll have to start at the beginning. At first, Erbao had no pocket money, but there were various food stalls in front of their school, selling roasted cakes, meat sandwich buns, octopus balls, and all kinds of snacks. Erbao can't resist the food at all, and he pesters his grandfather to buy it every time he gets out of school. Grandpa bought it for her, but the two disagreed almost every day. Erbao wanted to eat octopus balls, and grandpa asked, 3 balls cost 6 yuan, no, no, it's too expensive, you can buy the others. Erbao wanted to eat the baked cakes, and when Grandpa saw it, the baked cakes looked so dry, not delicious at all, no, no, you might as well buy a meat sandwich bun. Erbao wants to eat spicy strips, but grandpa is even more reluctant, this is all garbage, why eat it, no, no, you might as well buy a baked sweet potato. The quarrel between the grandfather and grandson continued from school to home. Mr. Yang reminded his grandfather that Erbao should eat and buy whatever he wants, so why must he buy things for his children according to his own wishes. But grandpa has been stubborn for decades, how can he change?In the end, I decided to give Erbao 10 yuan of pocket money every week, spend my own money in the future, buy whatever I want, and never be interfered with by my grandfather again, and I don't have to quarrel with my grandfather.

2The week I just got the money, Erbao was happy. Although you have to calculate the number of things you buy every day, and you don't have the money to buy expensive ones, the feeling of spending money freely is really good. Every day when he goes home, Erbao is calculating how much money he has spent today and what he can buy with the rest of the money. By Friday, the money was basically gone, and I needed to borrow a few dollars from my grandfather. As a result, I got my pocket money next week, and as soon as I repaid the money, I didn't have a few dollars in my hand. Erbao began to sigh: Alas, it's not as good as before, I used to be able to eat a meat bun, but now I can't afford to eat it. I teased her: Why don't you let grandpa buy it, don't have pocket money?She shook her head like a wave drum: No, no, I want to buy it myself. This kid really longs for freedom. At the beginning, she calculated the money very clearly, and how much money she borrowed from her grandfather, she would definitely pay it back. But then seeing that she couldn't make ends meet, she began to cheat, often not admitting that she owed her grandfather money, or admitting it, but confidently said that she would pay it back later. One day when I came home from school, as soon as I entered the door, I began to ask Mr. Yang, saying that one of her classmates had a weekly pocket money of 70 yuan, and she also wanted to add money. Mr. Yang said, "How about adding it to 15?"The two treasures seemed to be not enough, so they didn't give up and said no. Two people began to wrestle there, one saying 15 and the other saying too little. At the end, Erbao began to cry. Dinner was ready, but she refused to eat it, and still sat on the sofa and cried. I said: What's the use of you crying, come here, I'll teach you to negotiate. In fact, I originally thought that I would take this opportunity to teach her to negotiate from various angles, such as comparing with her classmates' pocket money, calculating the actual purchasing power, and saying that her reasonable requirements ......She refused, thinking that her mother was so annoying, asked for pocket money, and taught her to negotiate. I can only change my strategy and say: Come here, tell me what you want to buy every day, and my father and I will see if it is reasonable, and if it is reasonable, we will add money. As soon as she heard this, the difficulty had decreased, and she immediately sat down at the dinner table obediently.

3. Erbao began to count his fingers and count what he wanted to buy every day. On Monday, I want to buy a baked cake, 6 yuan. On Tuesday, I want to buy a meat bun for 7 yuan. On Wednesday, I also have to buy a meat sandwich bun. I interrupted her: Wednesday can be simpler, and not so extravagant every day. She accepted it and said: Then buy two small spicy strips, 1$5. On Thursday, to buy a snack, 3$5. In this way, it is already 18 yuan. I said, "Let's go up to 20, you're going to have an art class on Friday, you have to come back early for dinner, you don't have time to buy anything, at most you can spend 2 yuan on a small snack." Erbao also accepted. But immediately a new request was made: I would buy it on weekends too. Mr. Yang said: I will buy you snacks on the weekend, you can eat something that you are usually reluctant to buy. Erbao originally wanted to **, but Mr. Yang said: The snake fruit and cake you want to eat are very expensive, and the pocket money is not enough at all. Erbao thought about it, too, so he happily agreed. But I confirmed it again: the 20 yuan pocket money is just for me to buy snacks, and my stationery and warm baby dad buy. Mr. Yang and I agreed that everything that was just needed should be bought by Mom and Dad, which is the obligation of Mom and Dad. 20 bucks is just to buy something extra for yourself. It was so happily sold.

4 Now Erbao has 20 yuan a week, he didn't buy baked cakes, he didn't buy meat buns, but he bought a lot of snacks, and he calculated every day how to spend the money cleanly in a week. I kindly reminded her: If you can't finish spending, you can keep the flowers for next week, and buy more next week. She shook her head: No, I must spend it every week, and I will not leave a single point!This concept of consumption is really capricious. But I don't want to interfere, the concept of consumption, there is no absolute good or bad, love how to spend how to spend. Since he has his own money, Erbao seems to have a better concept of money, and he will calculate every account clearly, which is also regarded as cultivating children's financial quotient. It's not a bad thing to know how to spend money from a young age. As for whether she will increase her pocket money in the future, it depends on whether she has new reasonable requirements. ** on the Internet.

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