In today's society, people pursue open and free ideas, speech, dress, love, and marriage as they like. Marriage is free from the shackles of "the life of the parents and the words of the matchmaker", and modern people are more willing to start from the heart and control their own lives. However, the ancient concept of marriage was subject to feudal etiquette, and women lived a difficult life under the shackles of three obedience and four virtues.
A woman named Liu Zhilan died in both marriages due to the misfortune of her husband, and was even infamous as the "Heavenly Evil Lone Star". Liu Zhilan's father was a local gentry, a humble man who built a business empire with his brilliant mind and excellent business ability. Liu Zhilan is not only beautiful, but also talented, and has become the daughter of a famous local family.
Married to an officer for the first time, the two had a sweet relationship, but her husband was unfortunately killed on the battlefield. Liu Zhilan's parents felt sorry for their daughter and decided to take her home, although this caused discussion in the outside world. Accompanied by her parents, Liu Zhilan gradually walked out of the pain of bereavement.
The second marriage chose a businessman, and the two lived happily, but in a typhoon when a merchant ship went to sea, the husband drowned. At this time, rumors began to circulate that Liu Zhilan was a person of "Kefu", which led to the unfortunate death of her two husbands.
Liu Zhilan, who returned to her parents' home, once again faced her parents' marriage arrangement. This time, her father chose a gentle and elegant scholar, hoping to find a happy home for his daughter. However, Liu Zhilan was worried that her "Kefu" life would bring misfortune to her husband and hesitated.
The scholar fell in love with Liu Zhilan at first sight and came to ask for marriage. In order to examine whether the scholar is sincere, Liu Zhilan put forward a condition: the upper link is "wild flowers are not planted every year", and the lower link must express her sincere love for her. The scholar calmly responded: "Troubles have no roots and are born day by day. This made Liu Zhilan finally relieved and bravely married the scholar.
Later, the scholar became a court official, and Liu Zhilan's life gradually moved towards happiness. The rumored name of "Kefu" is a thing of the past, and she finally finds a wishful husband who knows how to cherish her.
Liu Zhilan's three marriages, from twists and turns to happy counterattacks, explain that fate cannot be controlled, but we can control our own lives. With perseverance, courage and wisdom, she broke the shackles of tradition and found happiness that truly belongs to her. This story tells us that even if fate twists and turns, as long as we keep going, happiness will eventually come unexpectedly.
Flawless Happiness: Liu Zhilan's Third Marriage" profoundly shows the pressure that ancient women endured under traditional etiquette, and how a woman can find the true meaning of happiness in the twists and turns of fate. This story is deeply touching and provoked me to think deeply about marriage and destiny.
First of all, Liu Zhilan's experience reflects the helplessness and constraints of ancient women on the issue of marriage. In the society at that time, women's marriage was mostly decided by their parents, and they had to follow the traditional etiquette of "three obedience and four virtues". Liu Zhilan was married twice, and her husband died unfortunately, but she was disliked because of this, and was even infamous as "Heavenly Evil Lone Star". This made me feel deeply the heavy pressure that women in ancient times were under in marriage, they had to face not only the pain of losing their husbands, but also the criticism and accusations of society, and their fate seemed to be fixed on an irreversible trajectory.
However, Liu Zhilan's tenacity and courage are admirable. She is not willing to be at the mercy of fate, but proves with her actions that fate is not unchangeable. In her second marriage, she chose a young officer who held an important position in the imperial court, demonstrating the concept of autonomous marriage that modern people pursue. Although this marriage ended with her husband's death in battle, Liu Zhilan did not sink in pain, and she walked out of the haze of bereavement by the company of her parents.
The most touching thing is Liu Zhilan's experience of marrying a scholar for the third time. She found Ruyi Langjun who knew how to cherish her in the test of fate, and the two went through ups and downs together. All this makes people deeply understand that fate may not be able to control it, but a person's choice and persistence can change the direction of fate. Through unremitting efforts and brave decision-making, Liu Zhilan finally found her happiness and realized her pursuit of love and life.
Overall, this story vividly shows the hardships and ups and downs experienced by ancient women in marriage through Liu Zhilan's third marriage. At the same time, Liu Zhilan's persistence and wisdom also give people thinking about fate and faith in happiness. This story made me deeply realize that no matter how twists and turns life is, persistently pursuing one's own happiness is a goal that everyone should be brave enough to pursue.
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