The man's implication made the women feel confused and painful. They say that life is too long and it is difficult to love only one person. This kind of discourse is often used by men to find a reasonable explanation for their actions, especially when it comes to satisfying physical desires. They try to rationalize their wrong actions, putting personal desires first, completely without taking into account the feelings and moods of women. When some men are poor and have nothing, they will choose a virtuous and kind girl who is willing to bear the difficulties with them. But once they make some money, they start to get fluttery and feel that the other person is not worthy of them. In order to rationalize their cheating behavior, they start to look for excuses, such as that the woman has a bad temper, is not gentle enough, does not know how to dress up, and dresses sloppily. Then, they began to look for their so-called true love, being generous and decent to the outside and stingy to the inside. At this time, the women who pursued money and appearance smelled the interest and chased after them like dogs. The men began to accompany the women on shopping and shopping for luxury goods, just to make them laugh. They believe that these women are the confidants who really understand themselves, and they look down on their obscure and undressed wives more and more, and they are critical of their wives everywhere when they return home.
These men thought they were brilliant and were fooled by their charms. They think that they can get true love by accompanying these women to go shopping and buy luxury goods. However, they don't realize that true love is not built on money and appearances. True love is based on respect, tolerance, and sincerity for each other. These men often only see the external appearance, but ignore the sincerity and silent dedication of their wives. In a relationship, loyalty and trust are paramount. When a man chooses to cheat, no matter how much he rationalizes his actions, he cannot hide his betrayal of his feelings and the harm he does to his partner. And those so-called true love, which is pursued only because of appearance and money, are just illusory bubbles. The person who really understands you and loves you is precisely the wife who is unknown and willing to bear the hardships with you. Her dedication and selfless love are truly precious. So, no matter how men rationalize their actions, we should be vigilant and not be blinded by false sweet words. We must know how to cherish the people who are silently waiting by our side, they are the people we should really cherish.
When men say that life is too long and it is difficult to love only one person, we should understand that this is actually a manifestation of their selfishness. They try to find plausible explanations to cover up their wrongdoing. However, true love is based on loyalty and trust, not on personal desires and superficial utilitarianism. We must know how to cherish those who are silently waiting around us, they are the ones who are truly worthy of our reliance and cherishment. In today's society, there are countless problems between husband and wife, and its best track has become one of the most common conflicts in marriage. In this case, the mistress appears in the man's life as a substitute in the emotional sphere. However, mistresses are not needed by all men, only those who are self-interested will choose them. They don't want to divorce easily and just want to use the mistresses to satisfy their needs and desires, while the mistresses use men to invest in their material things. The juniors are often running their own shops or engaged in beauty, business, foot baths and other industries, hanging a few men on the one hand, and labeling themselves as independent women on the other hand. They are good at using men's strengths to achieve their own ends, but this is not what all men need.
And for men, the importance of emotions cannot be ignored while pursuing material things. After the original partner finds out that her husband is cheating, no matter whether the junior wants to take the position or not, he should decisively divorce and divide the property to protect his rights and interests and gain freedom. And if they want to take the position, they can only wait for defeat and punishment, because the position they get is not legitimate. In addition, they will be more suspicious and suspicious, and this kind of life is not worth it. Therefore, in the emotional realm, we need to be more sincere and caring, rather than taking advantage and trapping. Men should also cherish the original partners around them and give them more love and support. The juniors, on the other hand, should pursue their dreams and goals in a legitimate way, rather than using men to meet their material needs. In marriage and affection, sincerity and love are the most important things. Title: From a poor boy to a stepmother, a complex marriage story Introduction: This is a sad story, a senior sister married a poor boy after graduating from college. They started a business together, worked hard to run a lamp factory, and gradually accumulated some wealth. However, tragedy struck, the man sold the factory without permission, divorced and found a second marriage and three sisters in Sichuan. The third sister's arrogant attitude and insults are embarrassing.
After the senior sister chose to divorce, the man straightened the third sister. However, the third sister's life is not satisfactory, she does not hesitate to give birth to three children in order to stabilize her position, but the relationship between husband and wife is in jeopardy. This is a complicated marriage story, let's take a look. Text: The former senior sister chose to marry a poor boy after graduating from college, and the two founded a lighting factory with the help of the woman's parents. They started from scratch, with hard work and wisdom, and walked out of a successful entrepreneurial road. However, the trick of fate made this marriage fall into a quagmire. The incident originated from a private sale of the man's factory, he went behind his back and found a second marriage and third sister in Sichuan. The third sister was arrogant, insulted the senior sister by text messages many times, and even used various means to control the man to death. Xue** was miserable and made a difficult decision, chose to divorce, and left the common 7-year-old boy to the man. The man is responsible for taking care of the children, but in order to stabilize the relationship with the third sister, he straightens the third sister. However, the third sister has already given birth to two children in her hometown in Sichuan, and in order to consolidate her position, she did not hesitate to give birth to a third child. However, during the production process, there was a situation of heavy bleeding and almost death.
The life after marriage did not bring the happiness imagined by the third sister, but was hit and hurt again and again. While the third sister worked hard to maintain her marriage, the man cheated and had a fourth. This makes the third sister hurt and frustrated, and she not only has to face the existence of her ex-wife, but also has to start a fierce battle with Xiaosi. The man's parents said that the third sister's emotions were becoming more and more unstable, and the man chose to avoid and be cold in order to avoid disputes, and the relationship between the husband and wife was in jeopardy. The story of this marriage is embarrassing and thought-provoking. The poor boy's choice deviated from the original happiness, and the stepmother's ascendancy did not bring true happiness. Behind this is the complexity of human nature and worldly disputes, which makes people sigh at the impermanence of fate. Whether it is the senior sister or the third sister, they are the weaker ones in this marriage, and they are forced to face all kinds of difficulties and pains, and all of this is caused by the man's choice. The man's infidelity and betrayal plunged the whole family into deep pain. Perhaps, in this story, we can see the weakness of human nature and the cruelty of society, but we should also learn from it. Marriage requires true love and commitment, not betrayal and hurt.
Everyone should take responsibility for their own choices, cherish the happiness in front of them, and don't pay a heavy price for the impulse of the moment. This is a thought-provoking story, a painful experience in a complicated marriage. I hope that everyone can learn from this, cherish the happiness in front of them, pursue true love, and do not bring unnecessary harm to themselves and others. Let's use love and understanding to build a beautiful marriage and family, so that happiness lasts forever. (This article is purely fictitious, if there is any similarity, please contact to delete).