Experts say that it is difficult to raise a baby, so you can ask relatives for help.
I would like to give feedback to Director Zheng about the real experience of 10 years ago, when I just gave birth to a child, I had no income to take care of the child by myself, and I asked my relatives for help.
My father-in-law said: Everyone has the obligation to help you take care of the child (how nice it is, the child does not bring, he does not give me a penny, he is busy with his own business every day, and can give the child up to 200 New Year's money all year round, sometimes only 100).
My mother-in-law: (In the case that there are only two people in the house, she and her, and no third person is present) talk to me about her rural hometown, so-and-so, and she can't hug her grandson, and it would be good if she could buy cloth to make padded jackets for her children.
In short, "I will grow up with the child I born, and you will grow up with the child you born" My son was 6 months old at the time.
My mother: The child's milk powder should be bought by the grandparents (I don't understand, my mother has actually been helping me, but when there is no money to buy milk powder, my mother is very angry, she spends money to buy vegetables and cook for me to eat, drink and live, but she just doesn't want to buy milk powder for the child).
My brother: I don't have the money to have any children, but I still have so many children (I didn't come to my son, my daughter was born, and he didn't give a penny of gifts.) When the child is older, he goes to his grandmother's house to see his uncle during the New Year, and my brother will give the child a few hundred New Year's money).
The above are my dearest relatives, and this is the result of asking for help. For my mother, I am the most guilty, and I am also the thickest skinned and accept the most help.
Experts mentioned asking for help from friends, friends can't be counted on at all, because most of the friends are peers, and friends don't have children and don't raise babies?Families with children, who dares to say that they have a lot of money?If people have money, they don't give their children to spend it?It's not just about money, it's about educating children.
It is true that the opportunity to give birth is only a few years, and giving birth at an older age does not conform to the principle of eugenics, but it is a bit ridiculous to ask relatives and friends for help.