Repeat 15 years, 594 points, retire from farming, don't let your child become "Tang Shangjun".
What a hard thing it is to repeat for 15 years.
Tang Shangjun has gone through 15 years of repetition and has always insisted on chasing his own"Tsinghua Dream"。He gradually rose from the initial score of 372 to 646 points, passed several college entrance examinations, and obtained many admission opportunities. Over the years, he has been known in the world of repeaters"Bartender", which has caused a lot of attention and controversy.
Tang Shangjun's path of repetition originated from what was buried in his heart"Tsinghua Dream", originated from the encouragement of the villagers to be admitted to Tsinghua University and build roads. He studied hard and rose Xi step by step, hoping to be admitted to the prestigious school of his choice. However, Daddy believes that this insistence is not the same"It's so ambitious"。While Tang Shangjun's hard work and perseverance are admirable, we cannot ignore his limitations in terms of intelligence and ability. To be admitted to Tsinghua University, you not only need a high score, but also an IQ and potential, which cannot be made up for by the retest.
While Tang Shangjun kept repeating himself, he also exposed that he didn't know how to adapt to the problem. Although he is attached to his own"Tsinghua Dream", but in the face of multiple opportunities to be admitted, he chose not to obey the adjustment and was limited to accepting his own"Teacher dreams"。This stubborn personality undoubtedly limited his room for development, but it also caused him to miss out on many other possible opportunities. Only when a person knows how to be flexible can he slowly achieve other goals, instead of clinging to an unrealistic dream.
Chasing your dreams requires more than just grades.
While Tang Shangjun chased his dreams, he also paid a high price. His path to repetition reminds us of one of the most practical questions: life. At the age of 35, it should have been the pinnacle of his career and a happy family, but Tang Shangjun found that he was not admitted to the university of his choice and had to return to his hometown to farm. Compared to his colleagues, he lost four years of college life, more than a decade of professional experience and connections, and had to replan his life from scratch. And by the age of 40, he was at risk of career decline. All because he left too few options for himself and his dreams did not bring him a better life.
Tang Shangjun's case gives us a way to think about education. In today's era of highly developed science and technology, there are indeed many opportunities, but studying and taking the college entrance examination are only one way to realize your dreams, and they are no longer the only opportunities. We should pay more attention to diversified education and find a realistic and feasible dream for children. Only in this way will they have more options and will not fall into the cycle of repetition.
Chasing your dreams requires focusing on real life.
While we pursue our dreams, we can't ignore real life. Tang Shangjun's stubbornness and inadaptability caused him to miss many opportunities, which eventually brought major challenges to his career and family.
Life is a long journey, and every stage and goal is just a part of life. Only by learning to adapt and adjust can we move forward smoothly and not get lost in unrealistic dreams. Tang Shangjun must learn to let go of his obsessions, face reality positively, and find a path that suits him.
Conclusion. Tang Shangjun's story gives us a lot of inspiration. It's good to chase your dreams, but it's also important to focus on real life and learn to adapt and adjust. Diversified education is more important to cultivate children's ability to realize their dreams. I hope that Tang Shangjun can find a path that suits him, realize his dreams, and let his elderly parents enjoy their old age in peace. At the same time, we should also reflect on our own education and that of our children, and not let them become another"Tang Shangjun"。