One flower is one world, one leaf is one Bodhi. Flowers are a symbol of love and the romance of Chinese New Year's Eve. However, if you receive flowers are only worth 99 yuan, what would you think?Will you accept it?Or will it refuse?
This is a true story that took place in Kunming, Yunnan Province on December 31. Ms. Liu and her boyfriend Xiao Li have been in love for half a year, and their relationship has always been very good. On Chinese New Year's Eve, Xiao Li sent Ms. Liu a bouquet of flowers to surprise her. After Ms. Liu got the flowers, she was very happy, but when she saw the receipt on the bouquet, she found that ** was only 9$9. Ms. Liu's heart sank, feeling that Xiao Li was too stingy and didn't pay attention to her, so she refused the flowers on the spot and quarreled with Xiao Li. She also posted this incident on the Internet, which sparked heated discussions among netizens. Man sends girlfriend 9The topic of 9 yuan flowers being forcibly rejected once appeared on Weibo hot search.
Netizens have different opinions on this matter, some people think that Ms. Liu is too calculating and does not know how to be grateful, some people think that Xiao Li is too picky and does not know how to be romantic, and some people feel that both of them have problems and need to communicate and understand. Some people also shared their own experiences, saying that they had received cheaper or more expensive flowers, and shared their feelings and thoughts.
In this regard, Xiao Li also came forward to explain. He said that he bought flowers at the Yunnan Flower Market at the time, because the flowers there were of the best quality and freshest, and he didn't care too much about **, but just wanted to buy Ms. Liu a bouquet of flowers she liked. He said that he was not reluctant to spend money, but felt that the value of flowers did not lie in **, but in the heart. He said he loved Ms. Liu very much and hoped she would understand his feelings. He said that Ms. Liu's behavior at that time was only impulsive, and he explained it to her afterwards and got her forgiveness.
This incident makes us think about what flowers in love meanIs it a gift or a test?Is it a romance or a luxury?Is it an expression or a comparison?In fact, the essence of flowers is a kind of beauty, a blessing, and a transmission of emotions. No matter how high or low it is, as long as you have sincerity, you can move the other party and enhance your feelings. On the contrary, if you only pay attention to the surface and only care about the gains and losses, you will lose the meaning of flowers and hurt each other's feelings. Therefore, when we receive flowers, we should not care too much about **, but feel each other's hearts and respond to each other's love with our hearts, so that the flowers can bloom with more beautiful brilliance and make love sweeter.
The man sent his girlfriend 9 yuan and 9 flowers and was forcibly refused