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We live in a free society where everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, and whatever the choice is, as long as it does not infringe on the rights and interests of others, it is allowed. Recently, however, I saw a question: "Don't you have a girlfriend breaking the law?"."This question is like a bomb that has left me in a bad mood, and as a staunch bachelor, I can't help but want to speak up for my single friends and prove that their choice is not illegal.
First, let's talk about "free love".
In our country, freedom to love is one of the fundamental rights guaranteed by the Constitution. This means that it is an individual's freedom to choose who to associate with and when. If you choose to be single, it is only that you have exercised your right to freedom, and your single status has not violated any law.
Some people may ask, "Then why do I see so many couples?"”
It's like when you go to the supermarket to buy fruit and you see a lot of people buying apples, you ask, "Why is everyone buying apples?""Yes, that's because apples are delicious, but not everyone likes apples. Similarly, not everyone likes to be in a relationship and has a girlfriend. This does not mean that their choice is wrong or illegal.
Next, we have to understand that "girlfriend" is not equal to "the whole of life".
Just because we see that everyone else has a girlfriend, we can't feel like we're missing something if we don't have a girlfriend. Everyone has their own way of life and values. Some people may enjoy the freedom of being single more, and some may be looking for their ideal partner. It is important that we respect everyone's choice.
In my own case, I've always been a happy bachelor. I enjoy watching movies alone, traveling alone, and enjoying the freedom to live alone. I also have a lot of friends who, like me, live a full and happy life without a girlfriend, but don't feel anything bad about it.
Of course, if you really want a girlfriend, then all you need to do is be yourself and wait for that right person to show up.
It's like when you go to a party, if you've been waiting for that person you're interested in to show up, then you're probably going to have to wait a long time. Instead, you should enjoy the party, mingle with different people, and maybe you'll find someone you're interested in along the way. In the same way, at every stage of life, we have the opportunity to meet that special someone. Before that, it wasn't illegal for us not to have a girlfriend, we just had to be ourselves and enjoy life.
In addition, we also need to understand that "girlfriend" is not a measure of a person's worth.
We often hear things like, "He's so successful, he should have a girlfriend." Or, "He's so good, he must have had a lot of girlfriends." "This notion is wrong. A person's worth does not depend on his love status. Whether you have a girlfriend or not, it doesn't change the fact that you are a valuable person.
In general, "not having a girlfriend" is not a crime. Everyone has their own way of life and values. We should respect their choices, not judge or put pressure on them. At the same time, we should also encourage everyone to be the best version of themselves and enjoy life, instead of pinning all the hopes of life on love. Remember, whether you have a girlfriend or not, you are a valuable person.
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