Shakyamuni once said:
"Whoever you meet, he's the person you should be in your life, it's no accident, he's sure to teach you something. So I also believe that no matter where I go, it is where I should go, experience what I should experience, and meet the people I should meet. ”
As far as the eye can see, there are memories;Whatever the heart thinks is the past.
There is no road in vain in life, every step counts.
Those hardships and pains in life are for you to grow, and maybe you will be sad and sad by the difficulties in front of you, but you don't know that when you look back after many years, those pains have already turned into wealth.
Lu Yu once said:"Whoever it is, there is going to be an unusually difficult time, and it is a long, dark, cold, desperate tunnel. ”
If you don't go through hardships, it's not enough to grow, and if you don't experience the coldness of the world, it's hard to feel the warmth of spring.
As soon as Xiaowen graduated, he founded a company with his friends, and in the past few years, he has achieved remarkable results.
But the good times didn't last long, an economic crisis caused the company to fall into financial problems, and my friend chose to quit because he wanted to support his family, but Xiaowen chose to stick to it.
Just like this, I struggled and survived, but the company still did not improve. By chance, Xiaowen learned that the friend who quit took away all the customers of the company, and Xiaowen was just looking for him to theorize, but he was ridiculed.
Xiaowen, who was unwilling to fate, began to beg people everywhere and borrowed money to live, during that time, Xiaowen learned from the pain, she deeply reflected on herself, she found that she was not very expert in the industry she did, and when the business was good before, it was that friend who was taking care of it.
While leading the team and studying Xi seriously, the company's crisis has passed in just one year.
Zhou Guoping once said:
"Man cannot control his own fate, but he can control his attitude towards fate and calmly bear the inevitable encounters that fall on his head. ”
The reason why we encounter some things must be closely related to our conduct and behavior.
For example, when the ability is not enough, you are in a hurry to start a business, and when you should study hard, you play games all night.
It seems that everyone will take some detours and hit some southern walls, and the inspiration at each age of life is different.
The current difficulties are faced with difficulties, and the current arrangements learn to shake hands and make peace.
The sea of life, ups and downs, the more you compete with fate, the more you are annihilated by the torrent of fate.
The real strong person is good at accepting the arrangement of fate, and then finds the shadow from the good times, finds the light from the adversity, adjusts his direction in a timely manner, becomes a big pattern, and ushers in growth.
Everything is the best arrangement, and we are getting more and more mature after all!