Hello friends, I'm Kaka.
A post-80s mother who heals her life with reading and writing.
The post-00s also began to trade feng shui?
When brushing a certain sound and a certain hand, I found that now the post-00s have begun to trade feng shui. They are devout in their beliefs, hoping that the God of Wealth will favor them, and that the old moon will appear.
There are also people who are not religious, they believe in horoscopes, they believe in tarot cards, and the essence is the same.
Belief in certain forces that transcend science.
In my impression, my father's generation of post-60s and post-70s generations prevailed, and the post-80s began to call themselves atheists, and many of them no longer believe in these.
In the post-90s and post-00s, it suddenly became popular again.
Is theism good?
Shi Tiesheng gave the answer in "Me and the Temple of Earth", he said:
Whether there is a god or not is not worth arguing, but at the chaotic point of fate, people will naturally ignore science, and place a pious hope in the void, just as the most beautiful yearning of Yijin human beings has not been verified by reality, but that yearning is not extinguished. ”
Proper theism is okay.
I feel that proper theism is desirable.
It is not to recommend feudal superstition, but to suggest that everyone has half of the unknown fate in their hearts, or the fate that cannot be changed, and a sense of control and expectation.
Destiny often moves in its own form, and God never asks everyone's opinion to arrange your destiny.
Joy, sadness, sadness, some sudden accidents, suddenly changed by the god of fate.
is like Shi Tiesheng, there is a bright future waiting for him, but at the age of 21, he was suddenly told by the god of fate that his legs were disabled.
He said in "Me and the Altar of Earth":
Lying on the sickbed, it is difficult to have atheists. ”
The god of fate has given you a gift that you never know what it will be.
In front of this terrifying sense of control, you will feel the smallness and fragility of human beings. And in the midst of a sense of loss of control over the whole fate.
At this time, you need to rely on a transcendent force to maintain your mental weakness and weakness.
In 2022, my friend Xiao Y's mother passed away unexpectedly. She was eight months pregnant and about to give birth. She knelt on the ground and prayed to all the gods of faith, begging them not to take her mother.
She cried and said, "I am willing to exchange my 30 years of life for her life, and ask the gods for mercy." ”
It's a pity that the gods were too "busy" to hear.
She was grief-stricken, depressed several times, and almost wanted to follow her mother.
Just looking at the little baby that was about to be born, she couldn't bear it, she couldn't yet.
At that moment, in front of death, she had no power to return to heaven, she could only hope for the ...... of Bodhisattva, Buddha, God, and God
This is man's instinctive dependence in the face of huge irresistible energy, human beings are actually so weak, so fragile.
A sense of control over your life.
A sense of control is a very important and needed ability for human beings.
Control is not the same as control.
And when you feel that life is completely out of control, you will fall into a huge quagmire in which there is fear, sadness, anger, and all the emotions of low energy and negative energy will surround you.
It's like falling into a swamp and going down, going down and going down.
In the face of a major blow, you have not yet been able to adjust in time to have a huge energy in your heart that can pull yourself out of the quagmire, and at this time you will believe in some energy that is more than human. Like God, like God.
There are hardly atheists.
At the chaotic point of fate, human beings will ignore science and place an expectation on some unwarranted energy, even if this energy has not been verified, but this desire will always exist.
So we believe in God, and we believe in some religions.
Many people have been a scientist for most of their lives, and atheists have only slowly changed when they encounter many uncontrollable things in their lives when they reach middle age, and they cannot be said to have become theists, but they have begun to have more beliefs and pursuits outside of science.
The problem with science is that he brought the nothingness of life, and once it was over, he made life a nihilism.
Human beings are always uncontrollable, fearful and uneasy in the face of nothingness, which is why religion and mysticism have developed outside of science.
Reasonable religion, beliefs, I think is good.
Just don't be crazy and get better.
To indulge in obsession is to indulge in superstition, feng shui.
Arrogant madness. I was so obsessed with myself that I forgot about myself.
Believe in your own teachings. So how should we look for a good religion and a good faith?
A good faith should have two parts:
The first is not to be crazy, to individual happiness, human nature as the core.
The second return to life, this belief landed in the present and in front of the present.
Good faith will put a sense of control back into your hands, for example, if you pray sincerely, you will hear God or God's will.
Good faith will allow you to reconnect with life, and it will make you realize in life the morality that you want to experience.
Religions that make you lose your sense of personal control, listen only to the master, lose yourself, and have no sense of boundaries are bad religions.
As mentioned above, in the year of her mother's death, Xiao Y was depressed and couldn't get out, and finally she began to read all kinds of books about life and death:
The Second Flower", "* Book of Life and Death", "Past and Present Life", "Soul Prenatal Plan", Yang Dingyi's books, etc.
She tries to see through life and death, she tries to see what the world is like after death.
She came to believe in the teaching that death is not the true end of life, and that there is another world after death. This is an area that science has not yet covered.
As Stetson said:
The sun, it is always the sunset. When he went down the hill to collect the desolate photos, it was the time when it burned on the other side and climbed up to the top of the mountain to spread the blazing sunrise. ”
The same is true of life, and she firmly believes that there is another world after death.
She asked me: Is it self-deception?
I said, "No, there are many areas of the world that science can't yet explain." The essence of whether you believe or not depends on whether you have made yourself clear and straightened out. If yes, then you can believe it.
A religion that can heal oneself, why can't you believe it?
And this teaching, it may also be the truth, who knows?Does it make sense to argue, no.
The highest level of teaching is to heal oneself and do one's own teaching.
Write at the end. In addition to his own rational cognition, combined with life experience, he formed his own way.
In this way, you can make sense of yourself and straighten out all your things. Combining rational cognition and life experience to experience this life is the highest Tao.
Rational cognition and life experience will give rise to new actions, and new actions will lead to new rational cognition and life experience.
In the overlap again and again, he formed his own theme of life. This is their own "teaching".
What we want to believe in is not a certain religion or a certain sect of feng shui, but a kind of "teaching" that can heal ourselves and allow ourselves to obtain the power of rebirth, which is also called the theme of life.
Have you found your own "teaching"?