Love is never said by mouth, but proved by practical actions and made people feel.
Some people, sweet words, coax your heart to bloom.
Some people, obscure, guard you without asking for anything in return.
There are many kinds of love, but true love is never just by words, but by action little by little, everyone can say good love words, but no matter how much you say, you can't pay for the action.
Therefore, the act of giving unconditionally proves that a man loves you deeply and can't deceive people.
01: If love is a one-way giving, it will eventually break
Affection is never a one-sided effort.
If one party has been giving and one party enjoying in a relationship, then after a long time, the balance will be unbalanced. The relationship between the two people cannot go back to before.
Xiao Li is a real counter-example. In the last relationship, she is always the one who gives unconditionally. When he graduated from college, Xiao Li gave up his high-paying job in his hometown and chose to go to a strange city with him to work hard. At first, the days were very difficult, the two of them crowded into a damp and dark rental house, and in order to save money, they ate instant noodles every day to satisfy their stomachs.
Although the days are hard, but he is by his side, Xiao Li is still very satisfied. The people around her persuaded her more than once to stop this unequal love and choose a down-to-earth person to live. Xiao Li, who was carried away by love, didn't listen to it at all, and still stood firm in her heart, thinking that as long as she was unconditionally good to the other party, the other party would definitely love her to the death.
Later, life got better and better, and life began to have a head, and Xiao Li wanted to get married. When the wedding was being prepared, Xiao Li found that he was in love with him - cheating. This blow caught Xiao Li off guard, and for this reason, he was depressed for a while, so he could only silently pack his luggage and flee the city that had worked hard for many years alone.
Much later, Xiao Li met another man. may have learned to be obedient, in this relationship, she didn't dig out her heart and lungs, but she could feel the sincerity and enthusiasm of this man, and she felt unprecedented care. So, a new, vigorous love affair began. Luckily, Xiao Li met her true destiny.
In the final analysis, the feelings of one-way payment are just wishful thinking. If a man is lukewarm to you, if he is leaving, or even emotionally unpaid, then please stop the loss in time, otherwise the longer it drags on, the deeper the damage will be.
02: Love should go both ways, and so should giving
The real relationship is always a two-way street, not a solo from the beginning to the curtain call.
There is a couple of old husbands and wives who are nearly 70 years old and have lived together for more than 50 years. Although there were quarrels and contradictions, the relationship never broke down because of this, but became stronger.
You have to ask why?
The old man will only reply to you with a smile, just in a word, they are more active, and they will pay for each other.
Yes, when two people are interested in each other, then from beginning to end, from the moment they choose each other, by each other's side, except for each other, there is no one else, they just put their minds all on each other.
When there is something delicious, you will always think about the other person, and the other party will always buy a copy and bring it to you when they see what you like to eat.
In every day, they have always been in contact with each other, they are all approaching each other, and they are all telling their likes with their actions, as well as the determination and sincerity that they want to be together.
If one day, you meet such a man, there is no doubt that if you are intended, hold on to him firmly and cherish it. Because a man who is willing to pay for you without anything in return must love you deeply and can't deceive people.
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