The choices that really make people better are often uncomfortable. This quote speaks to the challenges and difficulties faced in the process of growing up. Only by stepping out of our comfort zone and making difficult choices can we truly grow and improve.
Elizabeth Bennett from the classic Pride and Prejudice is a good example of this. In her quest for true love, she must overcome her own preconceived prejudices and challenge social ideas and personal preconceived notions. Through constant reflection and growth, she eventually let go of her preconceptions and chose a path that was better for herself and others.
Similarly, Jia Baoyu in "Dream of Red Mansions" has also experienced difficult choices and growth processes. He was forced to make a decision between his feelings and family responsibilities, and he went through pain and grind. However, it was these difficult choices that forged his character and allowed him to end up being a much stronger and more mature person.
These classic images tell us that growing and becoming better requires facing difficulties and persevering in making difficult choices. The comfort zone only makes us stagnate, and only by facing challenges and changes can we discover our potential and the possibility of growth.
Therefore, as modern individuals, we should be brave enough to meet life's challenges and make difficult choices that really make us better. It is only by facing difficulties and surpassing ourselves that we can achieve true growth and inner sublimation.