From sweet love to oil, salt, sauce and vinegar in marriage, to the noisy conflicts and family disputes after having children, how much is left of the relationship between husband and wife?
Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, flying separately when disaster comes, close relatives to distant husband and wife, these ancient sayings tell us that the relationship between husband and wife is not solid.
Holding hands and growing old together seems to be a beautiful fantasy for us after all.
Figure 1. At noon, I flipped through my husband's physical examination report, and I didn't know if it was out of curiosity or concern, because it was more than 20 days of cold war at this time. It was found that his physical condition was a little not very good.
The brain made up some bad pictures, and the heart suddenly couldn't say that it was uncomfortable, and the uncomfortable thing was that as a woman, everything in front of him depended on this man, if something really happened to him, he was still a few old in his in-law's house, and I was afraid that he would be swept out of the house immediately.
Without a man to help, it is true that it is difficult to go through a lot of hardships when it comes to raising children alone.
If you think about it this way, the person who hated the roots of his teeth a moment ago is suddenly cute, and he is not so useless. His past goodness gradually came to mind, and he thought that he should cherish the person in front of him and treat him well.
But thinking of the ups and downs he experienced in his in-law's family, those isolated and helpless moments, he didn't help, but blindly "did a lot of evil" to his family, and even didn't understand and understand you many times, didn't care about you, and had all kinds of suppression.
Thinking of all this, hatred ignited in my heart again, why should such a person feel sorry for him, it's not worth it at all.
On the one hand, I feel distressed, on the other hand, I hate, and I also deeply understand what it means to love and hate.
Human feelings can sometimes be really contradictory and complicated.
It's better to get along, although hurtful words during an argument almost destroy the relationship between the two people. But try your best to cherish it and avoid quarrels. Don't say words that can destroy feelings.
Maybe this man doesn't love himself anymore, but the marriage continues for the sake of the child. Because I have chosen such a path and go to the end of my life.