When it comes to the nature and goodness of man, most people tend to use "the original nature of man is good" as the corresponding explanation!
But in our daily lives, human nature is not always good!In this world, there are people who are good. However, some people don't show much malice and instead act kinder!
In the face of real life and survival, no one is not self-centered!
Some people have a selfish character, they do not bring unnecessary distress and consumption to others, they always try to rely on themselves, and at the same time they do not violate morality to kidnap others, this is called kindness!
There is a view that people in modern society are too selfish, so they have a certain prejudice against kindness!Actually, we all know that kindness is a virtue. But the reality is that some people are obviously consuming other people's resources, but they are still used to pretending to be innocent!
In this practical society that is full of God's views, many people do not want to see things as they really are, so they are blinded by those who "pretend to be innocent"!
Therefore, in a situation where it is difficult to distinguish between truth and falsehood, ** is regarded as goodness, and goodness is regarded as **!
This situation, neither now nor in the past, has nothing to do with the present!
The biggest difference between the past and the present is that people in the present have the ability to discern, while people in the past only felt that hypocrisy was undesirable and did not know how to express it.
Indeed, people in modern society, due to the progress of their way of thinking, know more about how to protect themselves, so they are no longer as easy to be bullied as in the past.
In the work "Desire", Liu Huifang is regarded by some as having a bodhisattva-like compassionate heart, and her kindness permeates almost every corner of her!Some people see her as a "petty bourgeoisie" and a "white-collar worker". However, there are also some people who, starting from the initial "off the beaten track" days, have come to the present with a deep "disgust" for Liu Huifang!
The streets are crowded, not only because there are no superfluous shows to **, but also because the actors who play these roles are very beautiful. It's not because the character of Liu Huifang is particularly liked!
Through her word "goodness", Liu Huifang profoundly reveals the ugliest part of human nature!She was a very compassionate and loving woman. Once you thoroughly understand Liu Huifang, you will be able to truly understand the nature of human beings
First of all, the humanity revealed by Liu Huifang is really unbearable.
The reason why human nature appears ugly is because of those greedy people and the loss of control of desires!
Before meeting Wang Husheng, Liu Huifang and Song Dacheng were preparing to enter the palace of marriage!However, when Wang Husheng appeared, Liu Huifang began to show her various dissatisfaction and "dissatisfaction" with Song Dacheng's fiancé;In the face of all kinds of "unwillingness and reluctance" in this marriage!
Why is this so?
For Song Dacheng, in addition to the fact that his work was very popular in the past, he thought that his knowledge was not as good as Wang Husheng, so he didn't know anything about romance!
When it comes to Song Da's appearance, his upbringing seems quite "anxious", and compared with Wang Husheng, his handsomeness is not inferior, which makes it difficult for Liu Huifang to fix his gaze;
From the point of view of material conditions, Song Dacheng is just a barely acceptable small house, and it is far from the two-story villa of Wang Husheng's family!
Liu Huifang's desire for physical and material desires is fully reflected in every detail!
After successfully marrying Wang Husheng, the Wang family's Xiaolou was banned, but when the royal father returned, Xiaolou was returned intact. Although Liu Huifang refused to return to Xiaolou with a superficially reasonable excuse, in fact, it was only caused by her innermost selfish desires.
Liu Huifang, she only hopes that others will always meet her expectations. She doesn't say a word and doesn't seem to want anything on the surface, but her actual actions don't show her greatness!
Her yearning for the Wang family is to hope that the Wang family can live according to her wishes.
Wang Yaru, a clear-headed person, seemed to see through her heart, and could never make her feel satisfied. Wang Husheng is a big baby who always needs to be taken care of, he once loved Liu Huifang deeply, but due to his sister's "intervention", he may not be able to meet Liu Huifang's expectations!
The deep expectation for Song Dacheng is that he hopes that Song Dacheng will always put himself in the most critical position.
If she hadn't done this, she wouldn't have taken the initiative to visit Song Dacheng in private over and over again. She knew that Song Dacheng's personality was very introverted and not good at expressing feelings. Moreover, whenever the private physical contact went beyond the boundary, and after being witnessed by her best friend, she began to show extreme "horror" in front of Song Dacheng again, just like meeting a bad child.
He not only hopes that the owner can enjoy the treatment of the west, but also hopes to maintain his good reputation, and the only way to protect himself is to cry silently and not say a word!
Liu Huifang's appearance is really ugly!
Second: No matter what, Liu Huifang can't wash her complexion.
There was a time when a few people questioned Liu Huifang's kindnessDoes she want to raise a daughter?Does she really just want her adopted daughter to wander around?
Indeed, she decided to adopt her adopted daughter. Whether or not she was unable to give her adopted daughter away for some reason, she wondered if she should be responsible for her choice after adoption
As an adult, you should take responsibility for your decisions in any case.
However, Liu Huifang's move to adopt her adopted daughter gave her the opportunity to be a "mother" only without putting on the label of a "good person" for herself. Can she treat her adopted daughter like her own daughter?Song Dacheng and his wife, the Wang family, and Luo Gang, the biological father of the adopted daughter, all have the remaining time, energy, and money!
If the interests of the adopted daughter are really taken into account, why not consider giving the adopted daughter to Song Dacheng and his wife, or to Wang Yaru?It's a hard question to accept. This is because the timing of these people's later desire to adopt is not the right time!
If Liu Huifang and Wang Husheng have just entered the palace of marriage, and Song Dacheng and his wife or Wang Yaru want to adopt them, then Liu Huifang will definitely agree.
However, during Xiaofang's later life with Liu Huifang, Liu Huifang experienced the benefits of the title "Good Man", and was able to establish contact with Song Dacheng and later Luo Gang (although Luo Gang was not known to be Xiao Fang's biological father at the time).
From the beginning to the end, Liu Huifang only had her figure in her mind!Regarding the adopted daughter, this is just the "flagpole" that she needs to be a member of the banner of goodness!
Sending an adopted daughter out of the country many times and adopting it out of desperation is actually an act of hypocrisy;
Adopting someone and consuming their lives is an act of malice!
Green Tea took the initiative to walk into her ex's home many times, with tears in her eyes but not tired, she and her ex crossed the line because of their deep brother and sister feelings, deliberately avoiding their best friends, pretending to be pitiful, this is all Green Tea's careful planning and scheming!
Liu Huifang, I really can't wash my complexion!Her evil is too obvious!Her kindness is too reluctant!The ugliness of human nature is so straightforwardly revealed!
Third: Although Liu Huifang seems to be kind on the surface, why do some people still want to think that it is real kindness?
Most people think that Liu Huifang is a kind person, which can be roughly divided into two categories:
1 Similar to Liu Huifang, she is the kind of hypocrite who has a complicated relationship with her ex, often consumes others, and needs to rely on her best friend and buddy to protect her day and night;
2 Confused by Liu Huifang's silent mouth and teary face, she can't clearly see her selfless dedication to others behind her, which hides pure selfishness and ugliness.
Why is Liu Huifang acting so hypocritical?
If a person really has a good nature, he will never send his adopted daughter Xiaofang away many times in the middle of the way, and only at the last moment of his life, he will choose to truly adopt her;
If you are really a kind person, then you will recognize the difference between men and women and will forgive the ex Song Dae-sung who was abandoned by you;
If you are really a kind person, you will deeply understand everything that your best friend Honeymoon Juan is going through, and avoid meeting your best friend's man in private, such behavior will make your best friend's home chaotic;
If you are really a kind person, you will know how to live happily ever after with your friends instead of going to your ex for no reason;
If you are really a kind person, then you will not easily give up your own biological children and take your adopted daughter just to get the title of "good person", and at the same time, you will not waste other people's money, time and energy, regardless of the hardships and hardships of others.
No matter when, Liu Huifang is always the kind of hypocrisy and ** green tea that is difficult to wash!In the eyes of many people, green tea is black and tea, a pure drink with nothing to be decorated, and it is unlikely to be given much added value. If someone really insists on whitewashing Liu Huifang, it is undoubtedly a clear proof that the green tea rank is too high.
This also explains why many people can detect a woman's scheming, and she is the only one who is favored!
If you think that Liu Huifang is a kind person, then you only need to observe the troubles she causes to others, and learn more about the benefits she has gained from these experiences, and everything will become clear!
When faced with a person like Yuejuan who has no scheming and can only say a few words at a moment, few people are willing to delve into the real pain in her heart through her snarky appearance on the surface!
Therefore, Liu Huifang found an opportunity to take advantage of and completely sat in a "grievance" position that needed to be protected!
I want to emphasize that as a human being, we should not engage in hypocritical behavior like Liu Huifang, nor should we make others feel chaotic and wasteful because of our own lives, and we should not behave beyond the boundaries of gender because of deep brother-sister affection.
In the real social context, whether in the past or now, characters like Liu Huifang are quite common!She's the kind of woman who makes people feel easily impressed. However, the reason why Liu Huifang was able to show a higher rank was because the people of her time were unwilling to make malicious speculations about others, so they inadvertently fell into the trap set by Liu Huifang.
In the current social context, although Liu Huifang's rank is quite high, due to people's sober lifestyle, she is rarely able to get her wish!
When walking in this world, you must always be wary of hypocritical green tea people like Liu Huifang, and at the same time, you must also remind yourself not to consume others to meet your own life needs because of personal selfish desires!