After giving birth to a child in Guangxi, a woman's request for a bride price from her husband caused conflicts. She lay on the ground crying, but her mother-in-law laughed at her for daydreaming. The issue of bride price has become a straw that crushes ordinary people. Although the "sky-high bride price" is not advisable, the complete cancellation is another test of people's hearts.
The amount of the bride price should be determined according to the conditions of both families. If you promise to give a bride price before you get married, but you can't actually honor it, you will disappoint the other party after marriage.
A Guangxi netizen said that before getting married, her boyfriend promised to give a bride price, but he didn't see a penny until the child was born.
She reminded everyone to be cautious when getting married.
The woman, who lives in Guangxi, recently had a dispute with her in-laws over the bride price. Although the child is a few months old, the agreed bride price is not given to her. The mother-in-law also accused her of daydreaming. It has to be talked about before you get married.
The boyfriend said that the family was in financial difficulties and could not collect the bride price for the time being. However, as the wedding date approaches and the woman is pregnant, she can only temporarily accept the verbal promise of a bride price after marriage. Women don't ask for a lot, but the bride price must be there. After hearing her husband's promise, she had no choice but to believe.
Who would have thought that the situation after marriage would be completely different. All the promises made before the marriage came to naught.
During the dispute over the bride price, the woman was pushed to the ground, and she can be seen crying and screaming angrily on the cold ground, but her husband and mother-in-law are unmoved. The mother-in-law looked at her with the child in her arms and sneered: "The children are so old and still have a bride price, it's really nonsense." "The female ** is disappointed and angry, because of the agreed thing, why should she regret it?Maybe I was too naïve to think that I could fulfill my promise after marriage?
A netizen said that 90% of those who promised to compensate the bride price would not be fulfilled. When women are lying on the ground, indifferent, there is no need to continue pestering. It is clear that women are pregnant out of wedlock and have been seized by others. No matter how much bride price the woman wants, the man can decide at will. It must be remembered that the order of marriage must not be messed up, otherwise it will only be you who will suffer. In reality, many men start to bargain after seeing their girlfriends pregnant, because they know that women are soft-hearted and unwilling to easily beat them when they have children, and the other party will make some concessions in other aspects. This practice is the most unethical.
The promised conditions should be honored. If a woman gives birth to you without receiving a bride price, it shows that she is not a person who only values money. At that time, she was just simply loving each other and looking at the person she loved with all her heart. However, who would have thought that it would now turn into a blank check. Don't your in-laws have a conscience?
A person who came over shared his experience and said that the man should give a certain response to the amount of bride price that the woman's family wants. The bride price is the face of the woman's family, and it is also the respect and love for the daughter-in-law. After all, raising a daughter is not easy. People's hearts are similar, think about it, if it is your daughter lying on the ground, can you not be moved?
Don't think that everything will be fine when you marry your daughter-in-law and enter the door, and the sky is watching. Marriage requires daily practice. There are many examples of couples separating because of their children. If it's not good for her today, she will probably keep it in mind and leave when she has the opportunity in the future. A smart man will not embarrass his wife, while an unintelligent man will keep calculating for a little money. We live our own lives, and too much calculation will only make us more confused.