During the feudal society, how did people judge a person's future development and fortune?With the best efforts of countless Jianghu monks, face reading has become one of the most common judgment criteria, but not many people can accept it now. In this regard, we might as well take a look at another piece of advice from our ancestors.
The ancestor said that "a person with a hard life can know it at a glance", and I hope you don't have the 3 characteristics of a person who suffers a hard life
The ancients often said that "the mouth is the door of blessing and misfortune, disaster comes from the mouth, and illness enters from the mouth".In life, learning to speak is a compulsory knowledge. In youth, people are young and vigorous, always outspokenBut when I taste the bitterness of life because of this, I will think about it deeplyLearning to judge the situation and say what should be said is a manifestation of mental maturity and alertnessSuch people are also often more successful.
But in life, it is inevitable that some people always like to talk and say some harsh things to others. The speaker is unintentional, but the listener is intentionalExcessive praise and belittling others is a manifestation of no gentlemanly demeanor, and if it goes on for a long time, its popularity will slowly decreaseIt seems to be arrogant, but in fact, it is just resting on its laurels.
In ancient times, there was a talent named Saishang Marting, although he was full of knowledge, but he always liked to pick bones in eggs when talking to othersOver time, no one in the village dared to ask him to teachHe was depressed all his life, and finally died of poverty, and all this tragedy in life came from his bitter mouthIf we could change, we wouldn't have ended up like this.
The old saying "man is not for himself, heaven and earth will perish" means that in this life, there will always be a purpose in lifeBut in the final analysis, these goals are just to be able to live a better life.
But if a person can do whatever it takes to achieve his or her goals, even infringing on the interests of others, it is really excessive.
People like those *** are very hateful. In many related reports, we can see what those ** corrupt people have done, they ignore the country for money, and put the people in fire and water.
They are representatives of the bottom line, moths of the country, black sheep, and their existence is to smear the face of the country, which is simply excessive
The ancients:"It comes from the heart. "The happiness and misery of a person's life, even if we can peek into one or two from his material life, but more profoundly, we should look at his heart, and judge whether a person is miserable from whether he is happy or not in his heart.
Throughout the ages, there has always been no shortage of people who have a lot of wealth but end up depressed, and there has always been no shortage of people who live poorly but have a rich and happy inner world.
And inner happiness and otherwise can often be seen in a person's face.
Such as:Coarse, dull hair。People with a hard life are often accompanied by the hardships and toils of daily life, and because they are unhappy, they rarely take care of themselves. This can lead to coarse hair.
For example:Sad face every day。The bitterness of life and the sad face are actually the relationship of interaction.
Suffering makes people unhappy, and it is shown on the face that they are depressed every day, and they cannot show a smile.
What's more, people prefer to make optimistic friends rather than pessimistic friends. If you have a sad face every day, and others want to take a detour when they see it, you will not have the company of friends, which will in turn aggravate the suffering of life.
And receiving people and things every day with a sad face will also make one's career unsmooth, career unsmooth, and material life even poorer.
After thousands of years of Chinese culture, there is not only elegant culture, such as poetry and songs, but also popular culture such as proverbs, and this popular culture usually uses simple and simple words to tell everyone some truths of life. If you learn to Xi operate with your heart, you will find the ingenuity of the wisdom of the ancients, and it will also make our lives go more smoothly, so it is recommended that you "listen to the old man" as much as possible.
The book "Old People's Words" is the experience and lessons summarized by the older generation of people, these old people's words are from life, experienced the baptism of time, to the greatest extent to avoid all kinds of unrealistic false emptiness, every sentence is heartfelt words, for everyone's life has a strong guiding significance.
To behave in the world, we must not only look at ourselves in two parts, but also look at others in two parts. Only by constantly improving yourself can you make a difference in life. Life is too short to start all over again. Listening to the teachings of our ancestors will save us many detours.
I recommend this book to everyone, you can learn Xi many philosophical and wise old people's words here, so that this kind of old man's words can better help you guide the direction and get twice the result with half the effort on the road of life.
In this "Old Man's Words", there are more than 200 old man's words, each of which is a truth worth learning for Xi lifetime. Each old man's saying is drawn out by a small story, so that we can have a deeper understanding, learn Xi, and read it is also rich and interesting, which is suitable for many young people to read, taste and learn.
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