Hao Lei has been dependent on her grandmother in her hometown in Jilin since she was a child, and her parents were not around for some reason at that time. She is innocent and loves to laugh and play with her grandmother. Every time there is a party, Hao Lei is always held in the arms of adults and naughty and coquettish. Once the ** cartoon is on TV, she is always staring at the screen, looking through the autumn water and wanting to get in and play with the ** characters. 
Grandma takes care of Hao Lei's daily life, cooks delicious meals for her, and always patiently answers Hao Lei's innocent questions, like a warm umbrella, Hao Lei naturally thinks that she will always be cared for so carefree. Until one day, when she came home, she found two middle-aged people sitting in the living room who she had never seen before, and her grandmother said that these were Hao Lei's biological parents. Huh?!Why did parents suddenly show up?Hao Lei suddenly had mixed feelings, she had always thought that she was an orphan when she grew so big, she was puzzled and aggrieved, angry and excited. The mother explained that she couldn't take care of her daughter during the recuperation period due to a car accident, and Hao Lei only then knew the reason why her parents left. When she entered elementary school, Hao Lei had to be separated from her grandmother and live with her parents, which was undoubtedly a huge change for her, and the familiar environment had no sense of stability. Because of the long-term isolation of life, the relationship between Hao Lei and her father is still rusty, and there is no deep emotional support. 
Fortunately, the mother and daughter gradually became closer and closer over time, and Hao Lei became more and more active when she came in a chic manner, and made a decision to transfer schools. After graduating from junior high school, Hao Lei was admitted to the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy with a clear goal and worked hard for her dream. But her family thought more about practical factors for her, and didn't want her to travel too far from home to Beijing. Hao Lei insisted on her own opinion, and quarreled fiercely with her father for this, and the two sides were deadlocked. The father was not at ease with his daughter going to Beijing to study, seeing that her hair was already long to her shoulders, he told her from time to time to cut it short to facilitate her life. Hao Lei is angry, you are too wide, is it possible that you even have to ask about the length of the hair lock?!Annoyed and angry, Hao Lei angrily threatened to shave his head, and his father was so shocked that he almost fainted. 
Looking at her father's dejected expression, Hao Lei suddenly calmed down, and she hoped to prove herself with practical actions, so she decided to temporarily press the dispute. During the play, Hao Lei participated in the youth campus drama "Don't Cry at Seventeen", and met the actor Deng Chao on the set. The two fell in love because of the play, Deng Chao was handsome and chic, Hao Lei was gentle and lovely, and she had the youthful appearance of a young boy and girl. Deng Chao takes care of Hao Lei's daily life considerately all the time, and the sultry little details are constant. Hao Lei was also deeply attracted by his careful personality and had a great impression of Deng Chao. At that time, Deng Chao had just entered the industry, and Hao Lei's popularity was slightly higher than him, but this did not affect the sincere relationship between the two at all. It's just that Deng Chao is still crawling on the road of acting, and he wants to break out of the world. 
Hao Lei plans to star in the historical drama "Summer Palace", which has many bold and passionate scenes, which Deng Chao cannot accept and is deeply worried. The requirements for actresses in this play are bold, but Deng Chao is conservative in his heart, and it is difficult to face his girlfriend's large-scale performance, worried that Hao Lei will become an audience gimmick. The two disagreed over these values and eventually broke up. Hao Lei chose her career, Deng Chao chose to leave, and the youthful and sweet campus romance came to an end. After the breakup, Deng Chao gradually became famous in the circle, and Hao Lei also rose on the road of acting, and the people who once crossed paths had no time to take care of each other. Hao Lei has developed smoothly in the entertainment industry, she has superb acting skills, beautiful intellectuality, and her own charm. In a certain cooperation, she got acquainted with Li Guangjie. Li Guangjie is a few years younger than her, and Hao Lei saw herself from him - going north alone with a dream and moving forward with a heavy burden on the road of acting. 
Li Guangjie is a fan of Hao Lei, and it is a dream to be able to cooperate with idols. He was keenly aware of Hao Lei's sweet temperament, and he couldn't help but want to get close to her. It's just that because his family is not well-off, Li Guangjie always feels that he can't give too expensive gifts to please Hao Lei. In desperation, he had to draw a vivid and vivid "marriage certificate" by himself, and gave it to Hao Lei with a humble and sincere attitude. Unexpectedly, this little heart deeply touched Hao Lei's heart. She is a well-known actress, and there is no shortage of suitors who send famous cars and mansions, but these external materials are not worth mentioning to her. She attaches more importance to a person's inner world, and Li Guangjie's innocence and sincerity made Hao Lei ecstatic, and the two came together naturally. 
In the newlywed Yan'er, Hao Lei took out Li Guangjie's hand-painted marriage certificate from time to time to enjoy the aftertaste, and her face was filled with the sweetness of happiness. It didn't take long for the two to divorce, Hao Lei rejoined her acting career, and Li Guangjie's marriage book was treasured by her in the cabinet, which became a confirmation of that youthful memory. Hao Lei feels empty and lonely due to her busy work, and she longs for a close friend who can support each other and share the bits and pieces of life. At a party, Hao Lei met Liu Ye by chance, and the two fell in love at first sight. Liu Ye has an ordinary appearance and an introverted personality, not as flamboyant as insiders, and his peaceful and simple temperament impressed Hao Lei even more. Liu Ye learned that Hao Lei was inevitably worried and scared when she came home from work at night, so she took the initiative to accompany her until she arrived at her residence safely, and had a long talk along the way. 
Hao Lei also found that Liu Ye was responsive, for example, the ice cream she wanted to eat was crowded outside, and Liu Ye went alone to help her queue up to retrieve it without saying a word. After the two got together, Hao Lei found that the small details of Liu Ye's life were what moved her - he always remembered her favorite dishes and items, would prepare supper after her hard work, and would take care of her when she was unwell. Hao Lei realized that she had found a soulmate on the road of life, and having him by her side was the greatest luck in her life. So, Hao Lei married Liu Ye and became pregnant with twins. Pregnancy is undoubtedly a mixed blessing for Hao Lei, as an actor, she is on the rise in her career, and she is frequently asked to star in new plays. For the sake of the child, she had to push off some of the roles, which made Hao Lei quite annoyed. 
Moreover, she didn't want to make the news of her pregnancy public, for fear that netizens would speculate and criticize Liu Ye too much. So, Hao Lei concealed the fact of pregnancy, and after signing a contract with the crew, she still worked as usual, she endured the discomfort of morning sickness, and carefully avoided the action scenes in the script. During this period, Liu Ye was always concerned about her physical condition, but Hao Lei didn't say a word. In order to keep the pregnancy safe, the director deliberately modified part of the plot, and Hao Lei finally survived the filming period under his careful care. After pregnancy, Hao Lei was afraid of affecting her image, so she doubled down on going to the gym to exercise to keep in shape. She adheres to the life creed of working for the sake of her children and taking care of her body for the sake of work. 
In the end, she gave birth to twins safely, and calmly faced various comments from the public, proving with her strength that a woman can illuminate both career and family. After the birth of the twins, Liu Ye hoped that Hao Lei could temporarily withdraw from the circle and concentrate on her husband and children. And Hao Lei, as an actor, is in the midst of prosperity, and she can't easily give up her career. The two had a disagreement over this and quarreled constantly. Liu Ye couldn't stand the emptiness and loneliness of his wife's frequent work outings, while Hao Lei also insisted on the supremacy of her career, and her married life gradually broke down. At first, whenever the child cried, Liu Ye and Hao Lei would temporarily stop fighting, and hugged their sons in their arms to comfort them softly. But this temporary partnership could not save the fragile marriage, and the gap between husband and wife widened. 
After all, one day, Hao Lei and Liu Ye divorced by agreement, but the two maintained a peaceful sharing of custody for the sake of their children. The children need to be taken care of by their parents, and Hao Lei has to work and take care of her two sons alone, and the pressure is hanging like a mountain. When her father died of illness, Hao Lei found that this man who was always serious was also weak and strong. , when vulnerable and helpless. At first, she thought that her father, like in the past, would endure the pain alone and refuse to be cared for. Unexpectedly, this time her father was very sick, Hao Lei took the initiative to visit the hospital, her father was already full of gray hair, her eyes were dull, and her heart throbbed suddenly - it turned out that time had quietly taken away her father's spirit at some point.
Hao Lei took care of her daily life carefully, and specially cooked her father's favorite hometown dishes and sent them, hoping that he could eat more to nourish his body. I didn't know that my father had long lost his appetite, and he no longer had the slightest appetite after tasting two bites. Hao Lei couldn't help but remember that when she was a child, her father always urged her to eat harshly, but now that the two roles are reversed, she has mixed feelings in her heart. Fortunately, the reunion time between the father and daughter during the care period finally made up for the regrets of life back then. Hao Lei found out that her father secretly loved her daughter under her stern appearance, and now she felt sad and reluctant to see him increasingly weak and haggard-the most affectionate thing in her life is still family affection, and she must learn to cherish the little time she spends with her father. Today, Hao Lei is a 44-year-old strong woman. She is still single, but has a career and the company of twin sons. The competition in the entertainment industry is becoming more and more fierce, but Hao Lei has created a personal brand of intellectual acting.
She recently starred in the urban emotional drama "Mature Years", playing the distress and struggle of middle-aged women, and her acting skills were once again praised. Outside of work, she will live with her children, and when the children grow up, they gradually understand that their mother's work is not easy. Every holiday, the children always like to stick to Hao Lei's side, begging for all kinds of games and entertainment. The three of them are indeed a beautiful scenery in life. Occasionally, when she is alone, Hao Lei can't help but recall her relationship with Deng Chao and Liu Ye. Although the love of youth finally broke down, the careful care and sweetness of those years will always remain in her heart.
Now she has slowly learned to face the reality and better cherish her hard-won family affection.