Life is only a few decades. The period between 60 and 70 years old is the most helpless, anxious, and bleak decade, and it is also the longest and most difficult decade.
I was in a lost mood and no one paid attention to it. At the age of 60, he has worked for decades, he has made achievements, made progress, has a fulfilling life, and has unlimited scenery. But after retiring at the age of 60, no one paid attention to it, and there were fewer **, and some people didn't say hello when they met. When I get home, I look at this and that, look at that and that, I feel depressed, irritable, depressed and empty, and many people can't get through this hurdle for a few years.
The body is sick and no longer healthy. When people are over 60, their health begins to decline, and minor and major illnesses continue to occur during this time period, and they begin to have continuous physical examinations and often go to the hospital for treatment.
We have a county-level leader here, just retired, during the physical examination, found out that he had lung A, after learning about it, he gave up on himself, to give up **, under the persuasion of his family, he went to Beijing for surgery, but no matter how high his medical skills are, it is difficult to save his life, and he died two years later.
I have a 65-year-old cousin in my hometown who died suddenly a few days ago because of a sudden cerebral infarction.
An old colleague in the unit, 63 years old, was found to have a larynx in the first half of this year, and after the operation, he spoke hoarsely, and when winter came, his wife accompanied him to Hainan for the winter.
There is no freedom to take care of grandchildren. At the age of 60, some have become grandfathers and grandmothers, and some have become grandfathers and grandmothers, and the task of taking care of their grandchildren naturally falls on their shoulders, not only to pick up and drop off school, but also to serve food and drink, and to tie themselves firmly to the home, without the freedom to go out to play. The people who pick up and drop off students at the entrance of elementary and kindergarten are elderly people with gray hair and wrinkled faces. When is this going to be the end?It can only be done when the grandchildren are in high school after the age of 70.
Serving my parents, I am tired and tired. People in their 60s, most of their parents are still alive, but these surviving parents are ** ten years old, can not take care of themselves elderly, they are either bedridden, or amnesia, unwilling to go to the nursing home at all, take care of them (they) rely on their sixty or seventy-year-old children, and the children are tired and tired.
Thinking about the future, anxiety and panic. Entering the age of 60, it is also entering the ranks of the elderly. Rural people are still busy with life, in order to rely on their old age in the future. People who retired in the city, even if they get together to play cards, chess, and go to a university for the elderly, it is to enrich their current life, and there is nothing to speak of. These people think about their future life and where to go the most. Most of the people in this age group were born in the early 60s, and after getting married, they were just in time for family planning, and they only had one child, thinking about what to do if they can't take care of themselves in the futureWorry about your future. So, at this age, it's easy to get anxious and panic.
"The most beautiful is the sunset red, warm and calm". How should we spend this decade?I think we should do the following four things.
Adjust your mindset. People are always the law of nature, and we must always maintain an optimistic mental state, not pessimistic, not lost, not comparing, happy to play, happy life.
Be the right face to reality. After retirement, you must learn to adapt, look at society correctly, treat your family correctly, face others correctly, be good at cherishing yourself, live in the moment, and live your own life.
Live each day to the fullest. Eat whatever you want, drink whatever you want, play when you want to, and don't be yourself. We must manage and use our own money well, use our own money for ourselves, and no longer worry about our children and grandchildren.
There is no way out of the mountains and rivers, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village". Elderly friends, hold your chest up, raise your head, tomorrow is a good time again.