My family is a special case, unlike most families.
Traditionally, women in other families usually turn their palms up and ask their husbands for financial support.
But in my family it's the opposite, with my men palms facing up, asking me for money.
I have been sick since the 16th of last month, and I haven't been to work until now, spending almost 10,000 yuan, but fortunately, there are medical insurance reimbursements for several thousand.
Otherwise I'll have to find my way and see if there's a chance there, and I'll take a few big sips.
My husband has not worked since he was 40 years old, and when he was less than 50 years ago, I wanted him to work as a security guard at the gate of the community, and he could also have more than 2,000 yuan a month to supplement the family, at least to pay for the family's living expenses.
His left foot was a bit sluggish (due to a stroke caused by alcoholism) and the toe of his right foot was severed, but he still walked unaffected, just a little slower.
I can't hold things with my left hand, but I don't have a problem with my right hand.
I blushed and told the security captain that I would let my family work at the door (they were hiring), and the security guards didn't need to do anything, as long as they could stay here every day.
The security captain was nice as we stayed for a long time and he understood the situation of my family.
He said that he could let him come, and he didn't need to do hard work anyway, as long as he kept it every day.
With a monthly salary of 2,000 and a commission, they can also help introduce tenants and charge some intermediary fees every month.
In this way, there is an income of 3,000 yuan per month.
It's an easy job, one day off a week, one night shift, and the next day shift.
After saying yes, I'll let him go.
It's right at the door of our own community, our community is not big, and we don't have to patrol.
Just sit in the guard room and press the remote control when I see the car coming.
I let him work, and it actually did him good.
He was at home, easily irritable, and only knew how to drink.
When drunk, he lies on the floor, whether it's winter or summer.
He will be a little more fulfilled at work, and he will be able to pass the time.
The other old men are in their seventies, and they still come to do this job.
He is not yet fifty years old, and he can do such an easy job casually.
At first, he did a good job, and my husband was actually very diligent, as long as he didn't drink, he could deal with it quickly when he needed help.
He doesn't talk much, and he doesn't make people hate him.
But after working for a while, his problem was ** again.
He drinks when he goes to work and drinks when he gets off work.
Drink it during the day shift, and even more so during the night shift.
One night, he was working the night shift, and it was almost two o'clock in the morning, and there was a knock on our door, which scared our mother and son all running out.
It turned out to be another security guard who was on the night shift with him, and he said, "Hurry down, your husband fell and broke his head." ”
My son and daughter and I ran downstairs and saw him reclining at the gate.
I walked over and looked, oh my God!His face was covered in blood.
I fainted because I was bleeding.
The son helped him up, he was still scolding, and the daughter brought him a tissue to wipe the blood from his face.
We want to take him home and have our son help him until dawn.
Actually, the security guards in our community work very easily, and the two of them work together at night, one keeps watch in the middle of the night and the other rests.
One of them would get up at two o'clock and change to the other to rest.
They only need to work the night shift in the middle of the night.
Even though we wanted to take him home, he didn't come back and stubbornly stayed in the neighborhood to curse.
He said that he was under a lot of pressure, and as a man had to support his family, which was simply not enough for his salary.
He does the same every day at home, and I keep telling him not to think like this, our family is doing well, the house in my hometown has been repaired, and we have our own house here.
Our two children are also very obedient, unlike other children who spend money indiscriminately and don't go to work.
But he couldn't accept it and complained every day.
He used to work as an engineer, and his salary was good.
But he didn't work well and drank every day.
Later, he had a car accident and broke his leg, which also led to a cerebral hemorrhage.
However, he continued to drink anyway because he fell to the ground again after drinking.
This time he was really finished, he couldn't go to work anymore, and could only lie at home.
During those years, he was deeply depressed and autistic, and it took me three years to gradually save him.
He was decadent every day, and when I saw the community recruiting security guards, I thought he might be up to the job.
I'm not because of how much money he can make, but I hope that he can do something that is good for his psyche and not be cranky all day long.
However, he did not cherish the job at all, drunk and cursed.
Noisy in the middle of the night can affect the owner's sleep, right?So our son carried him to the elevator, and we took him home together, and he went to help him go to work and didn't go back to his work until dawn.
I said a lot of nice things to him and told him not to drink while working.
If he really wants to drink, just go home and drink it after work, and don't affect others.
However, he didn't listen at all and scolded no one.
He worked at the gate for less than a year, and the security captain came to me and said that he was really embarrassed and couldn't let him continue to work at the gate because his image of drinking was too bad.
I kept apologizing to the captain, I worked so hard to get the job for him, but he lost it.
He can only stay at home, I don't give him money.
No matter how late I leave work, I go grocery shopping by myself, prepare the next day's food in advance, and let him cook for himself.
As long as he has food to eat and doesn't starve to death.
But he is very addicted to smoking, and if he wants to smoke, he asks his son for money, saying that he wants to buy cigarettes.
The son gave him cigarettes, and he asked for money.
We didn't give him money, and he lost his temper at home.
He picked up cardboard boxes and went out to sell, and when he sold the money, he went to buy wine.
After drinking, he went crazy and ran outside.
There's a lot of traffic outside, and sometimes I want him to be killed.
But I feel that this will cause problems for others.
The year before last, I sent him back to his hometown and asked him to stay there, there were not many cars in his hometown, and he couldn't go to buy alcohol every day.
However, after returning to his hometown, he was still the same, he could go to the street by himself, buy wine and drink it at home.
He can skip meals, but be sure to drink.
I only gave him 200 yuan on November 5th, and today I have no money, and he called me and told me that he had a cold and was going to buy medicine on the street.
He said: "I'm really embarrassed to ask you for money, but I have a cold, no way, can you give me two hundred yuan?.""Listening to his pitiful voice on the other end of the **, I really want to kick him twice.
But what can be done?
I transferred another 200 yuan to him and asked him to go to the town hospital to pick up medicine, and the hospital could use the medical insurance and partially reimburse the expenses.
However, he flatly refused to say that the hospital was all a lie.
What can we do about such people?Let him go, he can go wherever he wants, and it doesn't matter if he is reimbursed or not.
I've sacrificed a lot over the past few decades, and I still care about a tail.