A heartfelt smile and recognition is a luxury for ordinary people.
In today's environment of "reasonable burden, reasonable playing", with many inexplicable and seemingly closely related survival needs, I am sparing no effort to think about those "reasonable bearers" who pass on the concept over and over again.
Among these concepts, many things are like wonderful urban legends, which make you laugh at the first time, listen to them a lot, get closer, and seem to have become a kind of existence that you must accept and even have to become, you have to become legends, legends have to give you a special meaning in life, this is a "good deal for you", and you just need to carry more of the things that you "were born to carry".
Under the pressure, breathing freely has become a luxury, it is difficult to breathe, and it is even harder to think.
I read a post in the forum before, and the title said that I would earn an extra 2,000 a month, at the cost of working overtime to 11 o'clock, is it worth it?
It is about a young man who works in a big city, and his main job is enough to support the cost of renting and other living expenses, but if he needs to save money to do more, then it is obviously not enough.
And the family urged himself to save more money, but also to give the family more money, and said a lot of stimulating his soul, unpleasant, based on the meaning of "I am for your good", made him feel very uncomfortable at the same time, but also self-questioning, is his life really as his parents said a "waste"?
So this person found a side job that worked at night, which could be more than 2,000 yuan a month, but the price was that after he got off work during the day, he needed to work overtime until 11 o'clock, there is no doubt that this job put a lot of pressure on him, whether the double pressure of physical and mental pressure is worth it in front of the extra 2,000 yuan, he wants to hear the thoughts of netizens.
This is a very interesting post, the reason why I say very interesting, not refers to the content of the post, I think the content of the post reflects the current situation of a group, a very subtle, and not "convincing" The status quo, many netizens left messages in his posts, although the content of the messages has their own sayings, but the most popular messages I think are roughly divided into two types, the first one is more objective, first let yourself live comfortably, and then consider other things, if others can't understand themselves, then you don't have to pay too much for those who don't respect yourself.
The second kind of thing is relatively straightforward, you earn 2,000 yuan, and you don't spend it on yourself, you live desperately for a lifetime, and as a result, you live like "never right" in the eyes of others, don't block yourself, the reason for breaking away is not difficult to understand.
The forum I read has a setting, that is, the most popular content will be in front, and this post has maintained a high level of popularity, which shows that people are very touched by the experience of this migrant worker and want to say something.
So I just said that this post is very interesting, and here comes the interesting part, that is, when I found that the popularity of this post decreased after a while, I clicked in and looked at the content of the post again, and the popular replies in it suddenly "changed to normal".
I also summarized the popular replies after the reform, which is also divided into two parts.
The first part is to let this migrant worker find another job, after all, just earning an extra 2,000 is definitely not enough, for the sake of the family, for their own future, only by working harder, can they get these "don't care how much you bear, at least others seem to you to do the right thing" reputation, people live for these reputations.
In the second part, it is suggested that this migrant worker can reduce his expenses, live in a dilapidated house, eat a little, have no other personal interests, make good money in the future, and fulfill "what you were born to do", so that parents can rest assured, let themselves feel at ease, and endure more hardships to enjoy more happiness.
Regarding the content after the reform, the worker's reply has obviously become less positive than before, optimistically, perhaps because he realizes that some things may really be related to him, or he has become accustomed to this kind of "reform", so for those who are sprinkled and pointing, his reply is mostly very simple, sometimes even only three words.
Got it. In fact, these three words are not simple, they just sound very simple, and the things that sound simple are somewhat perfunctory, but in fact, the reason why they are not simple is that they are "outside of knowing" the choice.
This is like in those work groups, class groups, or some "groups that need to participate based on identity", after replying to these three words, there will be a lot less trouble, and a lot of unnecessary conflicts will be avoided.
Respecting one's own choice is not about choosing oneself in the first place, but respecting oneself.
Believing in the wisdom of posterity is not first of all about wisdom, but about believing in posterity.
Respect for oneself is a foundation, or only by respecting oneself first, words and deeds, thoughts and positions, will there be a "person" appearance, otherwise people are not like people, life is not like life, respect can not be talked about, how to choose?
Believing in future generations, in a sense, is also a foundation, as long as there is this foundation, then the current thing is a kind of foreshadowing, of course, this foreshadowing is based on what ideas, is based on what needs, then as long as I believe that future generations can handle all this, then wisdom will become the light that must exist when the human stars shine, and can only exist:
Radiant, joyful, noisy gongs and drums, firecrackers, I support, I recognize, I believe, of course, we also have to understand one thing, not everyone, like to be lively.
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