Yang Jiang said: There is no need to let everyone know the real you, and there is no need to keep telling others what kind of person you are. Those who understand you will naturally understand, and those who believe in you will naturally believe, and if everyone understands you, you have to be ordinary.
In modern society, we are often encouraged to show our authentic selves with an emphasis on self-expression and independent thinking. However, the reality is complex, everyone has their own opinions, values and experiences, and it is difficult to gain understanding and buy-in from everyone. Therefore, we need to understand and accept the fact that we don't have to seek to make everyone know and understand us.
Instead of spending a lot of time and energy trying to prove to others who you are, focus on building deep relationships with people who really understand you and trust you. These people know your past, they understand your inner world, and they are able to see who you are and what is unique. Communicating and spending time with them can bring you a more authentic sense of happiness and satisfaction.
At the same time, understand and accept the fact that you can't get everyone to understand you. Everyone has their own life, experience, and perspective, which is also a reflection of diversity and individual differences. If everyone understands you, then you will become ordinary and mediocre. On the contrary, it is precisely because everyone understands you differently that you can show your unique charm and personality.
This does not mean that we should hide ourselves or pander to the expectations of others. Instead, we should be authentic and find empathy and connection in our dealings with others. Those who understand you and trust you will be there to support and encourage you, and you can enrich your horizons by understanding and respecting their perspectives.
Finally, we need to understand the importance of self-awareness. Understanding our values, interests, and goals plays a key role in our choices and behaviors in relationships. When we are clear about who we are and are willing to accept our uniqueness, we are better equipped to build genuine and deep relationships with others.
All in all, there's no need to let everyone know who you really are, and there's no need to keep telling others what kind of person you are. Those who understand you will naturally understand, and those who believe in you will naturally believe. Find a balance between being truthful and adapting, and build deep relationships with those who really understand you and trust you, while remaining self-aware and authentic. In this way, we can find our own light and achievement in the journey of life.