In the delivery room of Chenzhou Hospital, Zhong Yaxiang can be said to be a celebrity
Not only because she gave birth to all-male quadruplets last week, which is a 1 in 3.5 million probability, but also because after she gave birth to quadruplets, Zhong Yaxiang's husband Cao Yaomin actually ran away
Zhong Yaxiang was the only one left to suffer in the delivery room, and there was not even a person to accompany her
This makes everyone puzzled, the two have known and married for three years in junior high school, although life is not like honey and oil, but the two are also in love and harmony, giving birth to all-male quadruplets was originally a thing that made everyone ecstatic, why did the child's father run away.
When she found Zhong Yaxiang, she was lying alone on the hospital bed, her face was haggard and gloomy, and when she talked about Cao Yaomin and his family, Zhong Yaxiang unconsciously shed tears.
She hasn't looked at the child since it was born, and now she is lying here, and her husband and her husband's family can't be contacted
The only news is that Cao Yaomin posted a circle of friends two days ago, the content of which is "never look back".
Well???Now is the time when children and wife need him, why is he leaving as a father and husband?Where to go?
Zhong Yaxiang also felt very bad in her heart, since the child was born, she felt that her husband was not happy, sighed all day long, did not care about herself, and sat outside the ward door all day playing with her mobile phone
After many days of worry and uneasiness, Zhong Yaxiang's wound left by caesarean section on her stomach became inflamed, and when she endured the pain alone, there was another thing that made her even more worried, that is, all the quadruplets were sent to the neonatal intensive care unit, but she didn't know anything about the child's current situation.
In the transparent incubator, four babies are sleeping quietly, looking fragile and innocent, but their bodies are full of various instruments, and their health is worrying.
The doctor told reporters that because the four children are all 28 weeks of premature babies, the weight at birth is only about 2 pounds, and the various organs and immune systems of the body have not yet fully developed and perfected, so in the future, the baby's body may appear at any time Some comprehensive diseases, such as necrotizing enterocolitis, lungs, retinal infections and so on.
Even now, all four babies have different degrees of apnea, which is a huge challenge for both the baby and the doctor
The doctor conservatively estimated that the four little ones would need to be discharged from the hospital in the incubator for at least 40 days, which means that they need a lot of money.
Could it be that Cao Yaomin disappeared for no reason because he knew the child's situation and ran away because he felt that he couldn't afford the ** expense?
The reporter found Cao Yaomin's house according to the address given by Zhong Yaxiang, and it was Cao Yaomin's father who opened the door, and he told us that Cao Yaomin had stayed at home for the past few days and did not go out.
Now Cao Yaomin is lying on the bed playing with his fingers, and he is very calm in the face of reporters' questions.
It's not that I don't want to go, it's that I don't have the face to go).
I was there when my son was born in the hospital, and the doctor said that I was asked to raise the fee, and he said that I couldn't get hundreds of thousands of dollars at once, so I was annoyed, so I came back).
Well???I had a question mark on my face.
* The cost is about 20-300,000 yuan, and the young couple is not rich in their young families, so anyone can understand if they can't take it out at once, but what kind ???of operation is it for you to leave your wife and children and run home to nest in the nestYou can't raise any money if you're in the nest.
Do you think it's irresponsible for you to do this, you left your wife alone in the hospital, you said to go home and be quiet, no matter how many difficulties there are, as a man as the head of the family, you should face it, not run away, right).
Now Zhong Yaxiang, who is seriously ill, and the quadruplets are still lying in the hospital ward, and Cao Yaomin still does not have a clear attitude and solution, and he has not even looked at the born quadruplets
Hmmm... The fist is hard.
In the end, under the repeated persuasion of reporters, Cao Yaomin finally agreed to go to the hospital
Zhong Yaxiang had just undergone surgery to suture the wound, and was lying weakly on the hospital bed at this time, and when she saw Cao Yaomin, she didn't even have the strength to ask, but the tears of grievance and pain wet the pillow.
Cao Yaomin changed into protective clothing and came to the neonatal intensive care unit, through the glass, Cao Yaomin identified his four children one by one under the doctor's introduction, and saw their young bodies and full of instrumentsCao Yaomin's heart was finally touched, and his eyes slowly turned red
It's not that he doesn't love his children, it's just that in the face of heavy practical pressure, he cowardly chose to escape for a while, and now regret is like a tide in his heart, and he decides to shoulder his responsibility.
In the other ward, Zhong Yaxiang was **, and because her body was too weak, she could only squeeze out a few milliliters, but Zhong Yaxiang still endured the pain and persevered.
She knows that every time she insists, her child may have more hope for life
Cao Yaomin looked at his wife and was silent all the time, he hesitated whether to tell Zhong Yaxiang about the current situation of the child, but in the end Cao Yaomin still opened his mouth, and Zhong Yaxiang couldn't cry when he heard it.
She can't take out the cost, and the family can't take it out, but it's her child, how can she be willing to give up, Zhong Yaxiang insisted on being discharged from the hospital, thinking that she could save a little more money for the baby, and was persuaded by the reporter.
Cao Yaomin reluctantly said another way, that is, to send the child out
Just now, Cao's mother received a **, a call from the boss of a Changsha package construction site, he proposed that he had no children and wanted to adopt one of the quadruplets.
And since the birth of the quadruplets, they have picked up quite a few of them.
After a difficult choice, Cao Yaomin decided to give away one of the children, but Zhong Yaxiang firmly disagreed
Because Zhong Yaxiang is an orphan, she has been wandering from various villages to beg for a living until she was four years old, until she was adopted by her current father that she felt the warmth of home, but the experience of being abandoned by her parents made her feel uneasy.
She knows the sadness and pain of not having parents, so she will never allow her children to suffer the same pain as her, and she will never give up on her children
I won't send them away, even if they are doing well, they have a shadow from their hearts).
Zhong Yaxiang's voice trembled and her attitude was resolute, no matter how hard and difficult the days would be, even if she would repay her debts for the rest of her life, she would never send away any of the quadruplets.
Cao Yaomin was persuaded that he returned home after seeing the child, and knelt down and begged his father to sell the newly built house for the child to treat the disease, but the house was used by the family for him and his brother to marry his daughter-in-law, and the arrears for building the house have not been paid off until now.
But the family really couldn't come up with any money, and he didn't know where to borrow hundreds of thousands, Cao Yaomin really had no choice, he couldn't kneel down and begged his father.
Cao's father couldn't bear it in his heart, and finally agreed to sell the house to save his grandson's life
Cao Yaomin and Zhong Yaxiang looked at the child's **, he apologized to his wife for his cowardly evasion, and promised to shoulder his responsibilities as a father in the future and give the child and his wife a stable and happy future.
A few days later, the township and village party secretaries came to Cao's house, they heard about the situation of the quadruplets and the difficulties of the Cao family, and applied for subsistence allowance and targeted poverty alleviation for them.
I believe that with the efforts of everyone, the Cao family will be able to successfully overcome the difficulties, and the quadruplets will grow up healthily.
When becoming a first-time father and a new mother, everyone will be flustered and nervous, which is the crystallization of love, a gift from God, and a great test for parents
Cao Yaomin and Zhong Yaxiang received a surprise of 1 in 3.5 million, and they also endured more pressure than other parents
And Cao Yaomin, who was still a young first-time father, obviously did not resist, and when his wife and children urgently needed him, he chose to escape and choose to hide, but fortunately, he finally knew his cowardice and came back to shoulder his responsibilities as a father and husband.
And in Zhong Yaxiang's body, I really saw the strength of a woman and the greatness of a mother, but fortunately, fate did not live up to such a good woman too much.
According to the latest follow-up I have checked, the four children are now in good health, and with the help of caring people in the community, the eldest son is recovering well after the operation
Cao Yaomin and Zhong Yaxiang went to Shenzhen to work in order to make a living, although they can only go home twice a year, but compared to the difficulties at the beginning, now this life has made them very satisfied.