Why do rural couples divorce in a short period of time when they go out to work?The old farmer reveals the truth!
Why do many rural couples divorce soon after they go out to work?The old peasant told the truth.
I don't know if you have encountered such a phenomenon in many rural areas: it is clear that the relationship between the young couple was very good before they got married, but not long after they got married, the husband and wife or one of them had to go out to work to earn money. This is actually a good thing, after all, there are no prospects for development in the countryside, and if they continue to stay in the countryside, their income will be limited. For many young people in rural areas, going out to work is also a good choice.
Although it is not easy to go out to work, many young people can only grit their teeth when they think that the living conditions at home can be improved, thinking that after a few years of hard work, they may have some small savings, and then they can live a happy life. However, many young couples, not long after joining the workforce, begin to divorce, what is going on?is obviously developing in a good direction, but in the end, his wife is separated.
In this regard, some old farmers also told the truth. Lao Wang said: Big cities are not as good as our countryside, the streets and alleys are full of **, for those young people who have not seen much of the world, there will be a big **, if young people can't control themselves, they will be addicted to the world of flowers. When they have been intoxicated in the world of flowers for a long time, they naturally don't want to go back, even if they return to the woman with the cloak, there will be all kinds of heartbreaks.
Lao Li Tou said:"I see!It's just that young people nowadays are too ignorant. Growing up in the palm of their hands since childhood, they don't know what a sense of family responsibility is, and they don't know how to support their families. They thought that the task would be completed after marriage, but they didn't expect that after marriage, it would be a life of chicken feathers. They don't know how to tolerate each other, they don't know how to put themselves in each other's shoes, and divorce is a matter of time.
In fact, there is no problem with what Boss Li said, after all, there is still a widespread phenomenon of early marriage in rural China, and many young people do not really know what they want, what is forced marriage, what is passivity on the road to marriage, and how can they be happy?Especially after these young people went to work in the city, their horizons were broadened, they knew more people and things, and they had their own ideas.
Back in the countryside, imagination and reality form an insurmountable gap, and they have no way to cross it, so they can only choose to escape. The old king also added:"In fact, this is also a problem of long-term separation, they are young and vigorous, and if they work outside for a long time, their hearts will inevitably be empty. Over time, they want to seek emotional release. It is also a very common phenomenon for husband and wife to live apart, due to the separation of two places, the scope of each other's activities is getting smaller and smaller, which will also cause changes in feelings.
You know, any relationship needs to be managed, and the relationship between husband and wife is even more so. If the husband and wife are in a state of non-communication for a long time, how can they be happy?To avoid this, communicate with your partner in a timely manner, don't be separated for too long, don't be separated for too long, and even if you have to separate, keep it one or more times a day.