Jia Pingwa said in "Waste Capital": "If you please with beauty, beauty will always pass with time, and there are all kinds of beauty in the world. How can you satisfy a man's appetite for six flavors after eating five grains?If everything revolves around a man, everything a man has is his own. In the end, you will only live in a nest and be abandoned. ”
If a woman relies solely on her beauty to please a man, then over time, her beauty will fade away, and the man's desires will be difficult to satisfy.
A truly wise woman will not pin everything on a man, but will maintain independence and self, and constantly improve her inner qualities and abilities.
Flowers are not red for a hundred days, and people are not good for a thousand days. Time is a knife to kill pigs, and knives urge people to grow old. A woman's youth and beauty are like the blooming flowers, although they are beautiful and moving, they will eventually wither one day.
When a woman loses her youth and beauty, what else can she rely on?A wise woman knows this truth well, so she will not pin her happiness on others, but will strive to improve her inner cultivation and ability, so that she can become better and more attractive.
The good-looking skins are the same, and the interesting souls are one in a hundred. A wise woman not only has a beautiful appearance, but also a rich heart. She has her own interests and hobbies, her own thoughts and opinions, and her own dreams and pursuits.
She doesn't change herself because of a man's preferences, but insists on doing what she likes to do and make her life colorful. Such a woman can not only attract the attention of men, but also win the respect and appreciation of men.
Yang Jiang said: "What is not lacking in this world is the beautiful girls that can be seen everywhere, the rich people that can be seen everywhere, and the love that is flooding everywhere, but the only thing that lacks the sense of responsibility, security and loyalty that should not be missing in love." ”
A wise woman will not be easily deceived by a man's sweet words, nor will she be moved by a man's money and status. She knows what she wants and what she should cherish. She will choose a man who truly loves her, respects her, and supports her, and builds a happy family with him.
A wise woman knows how to respect herself, love herself, and be self-reliant. They will not lose themselves because of love, nor will they give up their careers and ideals because of marriage. They have their own goals and pursuits in life, and they will continue to work hard to achieve them. They are financially independent, independent of men, have their own careers and incomes, are self-sufficient, and can even contribute to their families.
A wise woman is not only able to handle her own affairs, but also helps men grow and progress. They don't blame a man for his failures, but they encourage him, support him, and help him get out of his troubles.
They know how to communicate and get along with a man, can give him care and care when he needs it, and can also point out a man's mistakes in time and help him correct them.
A wise woman is a man's right-hand man and a man's spiritual pillar. They are able to make men feel at ease and comfortable, as well as to make men feel proud and confident. Not only can they make their lives better, but they can also make the people around them feel happy and happy.
Zhou Yi said: "Tianxingjian, a gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement." ”
A wise woman who knows how to constantly improve herself and make herself better and more attractive. She will not give up her dreams and pursuits because she is getting older, but will continue to learn new knowledge and skills to make her life more colorful.
Such a woman can not only win the respect and appreciation of men, but also win her own happiness and success. Emotion