Life is full of uncertainties, and it is impossible for everything to go as planned. However, we don't need to dwell on those unpleasant experiences. Just endure and everything will be different. We should learn to let go of the past and face the future positively. No matter what happens, believe that you are capable enough to overcome the difficulties and meet the challenges of life.
Mr. Yang Jiang said in "100-year-old speech":"In this materialistic world, being a human being is really hard enough. ”
Indeed, a person's suffering is really only known to himself, but it really doesn't matter if he knows it or not.
In this life, no matter whether it is good or bad, whether it is bitter or happy, sad or happy, we just have to stick to our beliefs, be down-to-earth, bear hardships and stand hard work, and move forward is enough.
In the past few years, the epidemic has had an impact on all walks of life. Someone is unemployed;Someone has an unstable income;Someone is still looking for a job;Someone is also in debt;Many people feel lost in the face of the future and feel that there is no hope in sight. But life still has to go on.
Once upon a time, I considered myself a strong and brave person, how many times did I break down in the middle of the night, how many times I cried bitterly, how many times I looked up to the sky and howled. The responsibility on his shoulders forced him to get up. Life is very difficult, and I have to force myself to do the hardest work at the grassroots level, but I still have to bear it.
I've read a classic saying:"Are you really tired?It's right to be tired, comfort is reserved for the dead!”
Every invincible person has gritted his teeth to spend a dark time, and in the days when no one cared about him, he survived the beating of life in order to become an invulnerable person.
But when I saw it clearly, I really realized that the life I was forced to live may not be all helpless, and there was a faint sweetness in the sadness. At least I am still alive, at least I still have the strength to change, to be my own master, and not to be attached to others or to please others.
There are many unsatisfactory and unsatisfactory things in life, but the key is whether you can endure it or not. There are not a few people who commit suicide because of debt, of course, I used to have this thought, thinking that I can be a hundred, but the living people will be more miserable because of their stupid behavior.
It's like a passage from Maupassant:"Life can't be as good as you think it is, and it won't be as bad as you think it is. ”
Happiness in the eyes of others may not be suitable for you, and pain in the eyes of others may not be your own pain.
Every middle-aged person's life is hard, no matter how hard and tired they are, they must persist in doing it.
Walk slowly, there are scenery along the way, and there is always sunshine behind youEnjoy the process of hard work and make every step hopeful.
Life is destined to experience a lot of things, we don't complain, don't be jealous, don't find yourself unhappy, because life is impermanent, tomorrow and accidents don't know which comes first, only learn to let go, learn to see away, let go of yourself, don't be angry with yourself, don't be persistent, when you see the impermanence, you learn to let go, learn to be dull.
Difficult days will always pass, and if you look back, you have already unknowingly endured a lot of suffering.
The only thing we lack is a look of our own efforts. From now on, we will not be afraid of difficulties, move forward bravely, and become a better version of ourselves.