Marriage is like a besieged castle where people from outside try to break in, while the prisoners inside the castle are painfully eager to escape.
Although many marriages are started as a result of stormy love, the staying power of love is limited, and feelings alone cannot sustain marriages.
On the issue of how to manage marriage, Li Yijun, who is known as the "Queen of Qiong Yao's Songs", has the right to speak.
Despite the opposition of everyone around him, Li Yijun chose to marry a middle-aged husband who was 17 years older than him without hesitation, and was determined not to look back.
What is this much-questioned marriage all about?Only by understanding Li Yijun deeply can we figure out whether she is calm or helpless.
Li Yijun, who was born on the treasure island of Taiwan, is originally from Wuhan, and has felt the customs of Taiwan since she was a child, which makes her gentle and extremely tenacious.
Perhaps deeply influenced by his parents, Li Yijun showed a strong interest in singing.
Lee Ye-jun is a member of Girls' Generation, she is beautiful, and she is always appreciated by the audience whenever she shows her singing voice.
Gradually, Li Yijun realized her specialty in singing, she was intelligent and transparent, and understood the importance of developing this specialty.
Li Yijun not only hopes to have excellent academic performance, but also hopes that he can have other talents.
Li Yijun would rather endure hard work and fatigue than practice Xi singing day and night.
Although the singing is pleasant, it does not bring direct benefits to Li Yijun, but he can understand a new meaning of life from it.
Soon after, the neighbors were surprised to find that the little girl had an extraordinary singing voice.
After the father heard his daughter's singing, his heart swelled with more emotion and determination. With his support, Li Yijun was successfully admitted to the Peking Opera School, which also marked the first turning point on her road to fame.
Her hard work when she was young made her a female singer handpicked by Qiong Yao, and her character of not admitting defeat played a key role in the road of life.
In the study stage, peers all hope to be admitted to their ideal school, but Li Yijun attaches importance to both academics and cultivating specialties. When he was a student, his love for ** made his youth full of passion and vitality.
This delicate-looking maiden seems to have been favored by the Creator, who has endowed her with a brilliant mind and opened the window for her to sing.
Youth, who can not ripple in the ocean of emotions.
Li Yijun's beauty and kindness made the boys regard her as Bai Yueguang, but at that time she had no interest in starting a relationship.
The curriculum of the Peking Opera School is no less than that of other schools, and students still need to work hard for many years to Xi basic skills.
Li Yijun should have enjoyed a good youth, but he worked hard and shed sweat and hard work. Luckily, he was able to achieve something he learned, proving that hard work pays off.
Through solid basic skills, Li Yijun deeply realized the charm of traditional Peking Opera.
Li Yijun was about to decide that she would always engage in a career related to Peking Opera in the future, but at this moment, an opportunity suddenly came: she happened to go to the ** company for an interview.
Due to the sincere invitation of his friend, Li Yijun could not refuse, but unexpectedly, the result surprised everyone. Even Li Yijun himself never thought that he would enter the entertainment industry.
The family was shocked when they heard the news, they had been ready to let Li Yijun embark on the path of Peking Opera, but a turning point in their lives suddenly appeared, and the plan could never catch up with the change.
Li Yijun once faced the choice of whether to continue her studies in Peking Opera, and she was not the only one who encountered this choice.
Xu Fan, the famous actress, was also a student of the drama school, and she was born into a famous Chu opera family.
She had a very similar experience to Li Yijun in the first half of her life, living according to her father's wishes and developing her personal career step by step, but no one expected that Xu Fan would be obsessed with acting halfway.
The same is true of Li Yijun, her parents have accepted that their daughter will sing Peking Opera for the rest of her life, but fate has made her join the entertainment industry halfway.
However, unlike Xu Fan's situation, Li Yijun quickly won Qiong Yao's appreciation.
In the era when Li Yijun was famous, Qiong Yao drama has become the mainstream of the times, and one of the most significant features of Qiong Yao drama is that it attaches great importance to emotion.
Therefore, the style of the theme song of the TV series should be more tender and romantic.
Li Yijun can be said to be an extremely lucky model, she signed a record label when she was a minor, and a few years later she stepped out of her own world. This experience of rapid success is enough to make any singer with aspirations for fame envious.
Xu Fan's resume is comparable to Li Yijun's, but her road to fame has been quite bumpy;And Li Yijun spent a few years to stand out from many talented singers.
Li Yijun's unique singing voice makes her a unique existence.
When Qiong Yao drama was popular on the streets and alleys, Li Yijun's voice also became famous in one fell swoop, and the lyrics were full of affection, adding a lot of charm to his singing.
The reason why Li Yijun became popular is more because the lyrics complement her own temperament, rather than just relying on her voice to be invincible in the music world. It's hard to succeed with a good song relying on sound alone.
Li Yijun vividly interprets the vicissitudes of life in the lyrics with a singing voice full of story, and this rare performance has also made her.
With the song "Wanjun", Li Yijun became a national-level female singer in one fell swoop.
Li Yijun's singing began to spread in the streets and alleys after that, and she herself must not have expected that she would be able to realize her dream of becoming a singer in her lifetime.
Li Yijun is still young and lacks rich social experience, even if he has the guidance of his parents when he enters the society, he will have to complete his future life path by himself after all.
After entering the entertainment industry, Li Yijun devoted several years of time to improving his career. She didn't think about falling in love, but she hoped that more people would appreciate her singing.
Li Yijun's emotional experience is like a clean and simple blank paper, her career is at its peak, and at the same time, she meets the inspection field. This led to a change in her emotional experience.
At first, the inspection had reservations about Li Yijun, because he was too young, so he took special care. However, as the contact between the two increased, the inspection site became deeper and deeper, unable to extricate themselves.
He found that Li Yijun had a stubbornness in his bones, which was very attractive. Li Yijun has no experience in dealing with male relationships, so he gradually falls into an emotional trap woven by his opponent.
He didn't have ulterior motives, he just admired the girl. It wasn't until much later that Li Yijun was somewhat aware of the idea of inspecting the field.
Love and Inspection
Li Yijun has been very assertive since he was a child, knowing that he is going to be eighty years old at the age of three, and when he realized that he had no feeling for the inspection at all, he decided to accept the marriage proposal of the inspection without hesitation.
In the eyes of outsiders, the 17-year-old generation gap is not important to Li Yijun, who believes that true love should be able to overcome all obstacles.
Li Yijun's wishes were only that, but when his parents heard that Li Yijun was going to get married, they eagerly agreed to the pursuit. The fact that their daughter, who had been pampered by their parents for many years, was going to marry a man of this age made them feel anxious.
Li Yijun's mother really resolutely opposed the matter between the two, and if she thought about it from her shoes, her parents would definitely strongly oppose it.
Li Yijun's parents did not pay much attention and hospitality to the inspection site.
Li Yijun's parents were divorced at the time, and she and her mother depended on each other, which deserves special mention.
This attitude of the mother is normal, because Li Yijun's mother has never been willing to let her daughter find an insider.
The entertainment industry is a very complicated place, Li Yijun's mother hopes that her daughter can live in peace, but the reality is often contrary to her wishes, and her daughter has chosen a completely different path without hesitation.
As a mother, she really didn't want to see her daughter jump into the fire pit, and no one dared to say that the inspection site must have found the right person.
Li Yijun's mother believes that her daughter is an insider, so it is impossible to maintain the objective sobriety of bystanders.
Li Yijun's love affair with the inspection field lasted for several years, and the inspection field was closed by Li Yijun's mother many times during this period.
Although Li Yijun felt helpless, he also understood his mother's original intention of opposition. When things reached an impasse, Li Yijun's mother accepted the persuasion of others, and there were some changes to the inspection field.
Over the years, the inspection has never failed Li Yijun, which is really a very convincing proof, showing that the inspection is at least worthy of her daughter's life.
Taking advantage of the heat, he skillfully communicated with his mother-in-law and finally won her approval.
Not long after, the prosecutor took Li Yijun's hand and walked into the palace of marriage. In the eyes of others, Li Yijun's marriage seems to have some gambling elements.
The difference in age is not just a numerical difference, but more importantly, it is a matter of personal experience, mental maturity, and influence on the worldview.
Inevitably, there will be estrangement between people of different eras.
The gap between Li Yijun and the inspection field is actually caused by the changes of the times, and it is not something that can be caught up in a few years. Li Yijun's mother was originally skeptical about the post-marital status of the inspection.
The people who suspect the inspection are very wrong, and the facts prove that Li Yijun may still be apprehensive, but time will test the nature of this man.
Li Yijun trusts the inspection field wholeheartedly because he has always shown a tolerant and accommodating attitude. Due to her parents' early divorce, she longs to welcome a new life with her husband.
Unfortunately, finding out that you are having trouble conceiving is not easy to accept. This made Li Yijun feel a heavy blow, and although the doctor was firm, he comforted her softly.
Under the guidance of her husband, Li Yijun gradually learned to calm her mentality.
After Li Yijun calmed down, he ushered in the good news of pregnancy, which shows that the more eager you are to have a child, the less likely it is to have a good ending.
She feared that her daughter would go astray in adolescence because she knew that her daughter had inherited the good genes of her parents. Therefore, she took strict care of her daughter.
Li Yijun's fierce aura back then seemed to have weakened a little on his daughter.
Although marriage and childbirth may have some impact on her career development, Li Yijun has achieved the happy life she dreamed of back then.
Li Yijun has always been accompanied by a gentle and good husband, and she also has a beautiful daughter who is known as "someone else's child".
Looking back on the differences between Xu Fan and Li Yijun decades later, it can be said that Xu Fan's emotional experience was very tortuous, especially before Feng Xiaogang, she was tormented by emotional setbacks.
Li Yijun's emotional path is indeed much smoother in comparison, and I believe that even if she can't achieve a good result, she will never regret making that decision.
Li Yijun is gentle on the outside and resolute on the inside, and never hesitates when encountering setbacks.
Li Yijun has learned since she was a child that the meaning of life lies, and she is willing to spare no effort for her dreams, and she will not hesitate to pay hundreds of efforts and sweat.
Li Yijun firmly believes in his heart that as long as he works hard, he will not have regrets in life. She has always been able to handle her attitude towards marriage.
Her mother's opposition did not bring this superficially gentle woman to her knees, and the sharpness of her worldly vision could not break Li Yijun's will.
Li Yijun has the courage to be not inferior to men, and knows how to grasp the advance and retreat between career and family, and it is precisely because of this that she can achieve enviable achievements.
The fundamental reason why Li Yijun can become a winner in life is here.
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