"Family and everything prospers" is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. However, conflicts and disputes between husband and wife are also unavoidable. As mentioned in a news report, a couple in Henan Province got into an argument with their wife after the husband came home from drinking, and the husband was scratched and bruised like a flower cat. This scene aroused everyone's attention and discussion.
The report described the man being scratched, his face covered with scars, scars that had scabbed, and his eyes were full of helplessness towards his wife. His wife insisted on filming him, and the man felt very helpless and could only respond with a grimace. Although the fighting movements and expressions between the two of them do not seem to be too contradictory, the reasons behind this incident obviously cannot be ignored.
According to the wife's recollection, a few days ago, the husband went out drinking with a friend and drank until late at night before returning home. When drunk, he yelled at home and woke up the whole family. His wife advised him to keep quiet and not to disturb the child's sleep, but not only did he not listen, but he also had an argument with her. In her anger, the wife scratched her husband's face. Although the husband also made a counterattack, he was unable to do so due to drunkenness. When he woke up the next day, the husband remembered his drunken behavior and apologized to his family. Although his appearance was unacceptable to his family, after all, he was a family, and everyone forgave him for his excesses. As a result, they returned to the model of loving couples in the past.
The wife compliments her husband for being a good husband and a good father when he is not drinking. But once he drinks, he tends to become noisy. Therefore, the wife to the husband'sAlcoholismBehavior is offensive. She worries that her husband will cause trouble if he drinks too much outside, after all, the family's livelihood depends on him. The purpose of scratching her husband was to teach him a profound lesson about not drinking too much. Of course, as a wife, she is also worried and distressed that her husband is hurt. Some netizens commented that wouldn't this make him feel embarrassed?After the husband was scratched by himself, even the person next to him couldn't respect him, let alone an outsider. To respect your husband is to respect yourself. It is also believed that although the husband does not drink properly, the way in which the wife hurts him is also wrong. However, some people think this incident is very funny, after all, laughing, the damage is not so deep. There are also people who believe that if a man beats his wife and scolds his children when he is drunk, and kneels down to beg for forgiveness after sobering up, but it will be the same next time, then such a person should be taught some lessons.
As an author, I think every pair walks intoMarriageThe couples in the palace hope to build a happy home together and grow old together. However, long-term companionship inevitably leads to contradictions. As the main person responsible for the family, the husband should be responsible. He can't ignore his family's feelings because of his momentary happiness. Drinking alcohol is understandable, but not in excess. How many families are torn apart because of drinking problems, and that's something we don't want to see. The wife's reminder is understandable, but not supported to cause such serious harm to the husband. As a man, he is also very face-saving. Now like this, how can he raise his head outside?
Each of us should think about this for a moment. Can we understand our husband's inner confusion and stress from his point of view?Will we be able to express our grievances in a more gentle way?Family is our most intimate relationship, and our words and actions will have an impact on it. Therefore, we must learn to respect each other, be patient and understanding, and work together to create a harmonious and happy family.
Behind this story, it also reflects the wisdom and courage of many couples in dealing with conflicts and difficulties. Everyone has their own shortcomings and shortcomings, but we should tolerate each other, support each other, and face various challenges in life together. Only in this way will we be able to build a harmonious family and embrace a happy future.