The injustice brought about by the grandfather's "reward".
It was at a party at a family dinner. Lao Li, a grandfather, has always doted on his children, and he has never been partial. But when both of his grandchildren entered the school, he surprised everyone that they received a completely different reward. When the grandson saw that he had received more money than others, he felt a sense of injustice and injustice in his heart. Later, he told his mother what happened, and his mother called **, trying to figure out what happened. However, her father's words made her speechless: "Will your son have my surname?"Such discrimination has led to strife within some families, highlighting the persistence of boy-to-boy prejudice in some families.
Netizens have a lot of discussions about this. Some people believe that the elderly father is free to decide how he is rewarded, and we should not blame him for that;Others say that the elderly father is unfair and should treat his children and grandchildren equally. There is no doubt that the traditional boyish thinking is still prevalent, which is not only a wrong value, but also a social injustice and unfairness. Therefore, parents and elders should abandon these ideas and treat every family member fairly.
The hurt of patriarchal thinking.
Boy preference is a psychosocial phenomenon that is prevalent in many families, causing unfairness and unfairness. This view is not only harmful to women, but also has a negative effect on men's development. For women, patriarchal thinking has led to a lower status in the family and society, often not being respected and cherished. In addition, there are many discrimination and limitations for women in employment, education and other issues. For men, the traditional ideas of patriarchal society give them too much expectation and pressure, which makes them confused and restrained when constructing their own gender roles. However, such a view can also cause conflicts and contradictions in the family.
In the modern era, we need to abandon the idea of the primacy of boys and treat boys and girls fairly and fairly. The home should be a place of justice and peace, and every family member should be respected and loved. Parents are role models for their children and should be taught to treat both men and women equally. Only in this way can our family and society be more harmonious and move forward.
The meaning of equal treatment.
In the family, the fair treatment of children is a key foundation for building a harmonious society. All family members, both boys and girls, have the same rights and opportunities. Equality is crucial when it comes to rewarding children. Failure to do so will not only make other children feel hurt, but also encourage their perception of injustice and create a sense of unfairness.
An old man like Lao Li should recognize the drawbacks of this "patriarchal" mentality and change it through his own actions. As an elder, we must have equal care and reward for our children, so as to establish fair and equitable family values. The family is the breeding ground for children's growth, and a just and fair family atmosphere will plant a seed in the depths of children's hearts and play a pivotal role in their future development and interpersonal communication.
At the social level, it is necessary to strengthen the popularization of gender awareness and promote gender identity between the sexes. The idea of the primacy of boys should be completely abandoned, and a new mechanism for gender equality should be established in society as a whole.
Conclusion. Although social conditions have improved, there are still some parents who treat boys and girls unfairly. In this article, the grandfather favors one of the grandchildren and neglects the other, which leads to strife and injustice within the family. Parents and elders should abandon patriarchal traditions, treat their children equally, and create a fair and harmonious family with equal care and reciprocation. From the perspective of society, it is necessary to increase the popularization and popularization of gender equality awareness, so that both sexes can be equally recognized. Only by working together can we truly promote gender equality and build a fair and harmonious society.