When you are old and go to your siblings' house for dinner, you will understand these 3 things
When I was a child, my siblings were our closest partners on the road of growth, chasing laughter and noisy every day, and spending a wonderful childhood time together
As they grew up, their siblings started families and began to live their own lives, and the opportunity to get together became scarce, and only their parents became the bond between them
With the passage of time, our parents gradually left us, and the relatives around us gradually decreased, only to gradually understand the preciousness of family affection, and to deeply realize that brothers and sisters are the confidants who have been with us for the longest time in our lives;
In the journey of life, brotherhood is a deep affection that we are never willing to give up.
As you get older, you will come to a dinner with your siblings and you will come to a deeper understanding of these three important truths.
After the death of parents, siblings are the closest
Recently, I had a touching one on the web.
An older brother, who has reached the age of 101, deliberately walked a long way to visit his 96-year-old sister.
After a short reunion, the two old men are about to separate.
When saying goodbye, my sister caught up with her brother's car, forcibly stuffed him with 200 yuan, and said gently: "Buy something delicious!."This simple sentence brought tears down to the eyes.
The old man wiped his tears with his hands, and the ** person couldn't help but feel sad after seeing it.
Some netizens said in the comments: "It's so happy to have brothers and sisters at this age!."”
Yes, when you are old, you will deeply realize how important it is to have someone who is related to you by blood in this world.
When you get older, your parents have passed away, and your siblings become our closest companions in the world.
Friends will disperse, children will gradually grow up independently, and in addition to the partners in life, only brothers and sisters can accompany us through the second half of life.
It is a great blessing for brothers and sisters to be able to stay together even in old age.
With their company, we will no longer feel lonely;With their company, we will not be afraid to face all kinds of difficulties in life.
When you reach old age, please be kind to your brothers and sisters, because they are the most precious gifts your parents have left you in this world.
Siblings, who love you more than you think
The author Ferryman shared a deeply touching story.
The brother of one of her friends died of illness the year before.
On the day before he died, his brother was speechless, but silently held his sister's hand and spent the night quietly.
The siblings grew up arguing and spent their childhood together, but they never imagined that their fate would be so short.
On the day of her brother's death, her sister couldn't sleep for a long time.
She leaned close to her brother's ear and whispered, "Brother, you can rest assured, our parents have me, and I will have a good life in the future." ”
Two years later, my sister happened to find three text messages sent by her brother before his death on her husband's old mobile phone.
Article 1: "I may not have a few days, please take care of my sister." ”
Article 2: "She sometimes has a bad temper, which is what I am used to, please be more tolerant." ”
Rule 3: "Take good care of her for me, and I will always be grateful and blessed to you in heaven." ”
After reading the text message, my sister was already in tears.
Many times, the love of siblings is deeper than we think.
The feelings between siblings are mostly silent and deep, often imperceptible, until we realize that this affection has long been deeply rooted in our hearts and has been nourishing each other.
Every pair of siblings has the same genes in their blood, and they have a common growth environment and memories, which is a special relationship that cannot be replaced by other emotions.
Perhaps time and fate will separate you for a while, leaving you distant for a while.
What can never be separated is the blood of family and love.
It is not until later in life that people understand that the relationship between all siblings will eventually return to reunion.
In a long life, I am fortunate to have brothers and sisters who accompany each other for a lifetime, taking care of each other, protecting each other, and loving each other.
Brothers and sisters, brotherhood is deep, cherish it
Xue Zhaofeng once said in an episode of the program: "Among all family relationships, brotherhood, brothers and sisters, are the ones who accompany each other and support each other for the longest time." This is a gift from parents to their children, a generous gift. This sentence touched people's hearts deeply.
Brotherhood is often able to transcend time and all difficulties to bring us comfort and warmth.
When you are old, you can still have your brothers and sisters by your side, which is really lucky and must be cherished.
Recently, there is a piece of news that has caught the eye:
A woman surnamed Bai in Zibo, Shandong Province, learned that her father was hospitalized due to illness and needed surgery.
After learning the news, her three uncles, an uncle, and her sister-in-law and uncle drove more than two hours to the hospital in a hurry.
Due to hospital restrictions, her uncles and uncles waited downstairs in the hospital for an entire afternoon until her father's surgery was over.
This scene moved many netizens to tears.
This is reminiscent of an old proverb: "A friend is always dear, but a brother is born in trouble." ”
In the journey of life, when we encounter hardships and tribulations, it is often our brothers and sisters who really care about and help us.
When people reach old age, we will find that brothers and sisters are like our crutches, no matter what kind of difficulties we face, as long as we have brothers and sisters together and support each other, there will be no difficulties that we cannot overcome.
The greatest happiness in life is to have someone to accompany you when you are young and someone to grow old with.
When you get old, you must carefully manage this precious relationship.
In daily life, we should help each other, care for each other, be less calculating, and be more understanding.
In getting along, be cautious in your words and deeds, and communicate well when you have something. When you have a problem, don't rush to argue, but be more patient and listen to the other person's point of view.
Cherish this deep family affection with our hearts, because with the existence of brothers and sisters, our lives have become more splendid, and our lives have become more fulfilling and happy.
An affectionate quote from the movie "My Brothers and Sisters" touched me deeply:
Brothers and sisters, like snowflakes falling in the sky, once they descend on the earth, merge into the earth, and condense into ice, they can no longer be separated. ”
In the journey of life, siblings are our closest companions after the loss of our parents;
Brothers and sisters are the longest lovers who accompany us all the way;
Brothers and sisters are the people we need to cherish and care for.
As the years go by, brothers and sisters become the solid shield and crutch we can rely on in our lives, like warm sunshine.
No matter how much unhappiness has happened in the past, we should learn to tolerate and let go.
Between brothers and sisters, there is no untie knot, no contradiction that cannot be resolved.
Remember, siblings don't have to dig through old accounts and dwell on old grudges. With more interdependence, more care and cherishment, the relationship will surely grow deeper and deeper.