Today's high school students have become the world of the post-00s. From the moment they were born, they were surrounded by various electronic products, and the rapid development of national information technology made the network widely used. They are known as the "natives" of the digital age, and at the same time, they are also the only children of the golden light. Their parents have become more awake in the process of educating their children, upholding the principles of scientific feeding and scientific education, and gradually guiding their children's growth. However, compared to families with many children, only children are more self-centered and lack the quality of humility. They live in high-rise buildings and are socially isolated, and the pandemic has left them with little social interaction for the past three years. By understanding this background information, we can basically understand the root cause of the differences between high school students and us in terms of personality, temperament, and attitude.
Parents often make mistakes in the process of educating their children. They have a certain amount of social experience and always want to pass on their experience to their children so that they don't suffer. However, once the child is disobedient, parents tend to lose patience and angrily accuse and scold. However, for children, they have not personally experienced the pain of something and therefore cannot truly understand. Therefore, parents should not blindly preach, let alone use scolding or yelling to solve the problem, because this will only backfire. Children are not unreasonable people, and parents should look for appropriate ways to communicate with them in a reasoned and evidence-based manner;If this approach still doesn't work, parents need to be more attentive and try other methods. By studying Xi Zhang Xuefeng's books, we can deeply understand what high school students are like now, and realize that children's rebellious behavior is not so terrible.
High school is a critical period of youth, and teenagers are more curious and psychologically immature. Therefore, some problems may follow, such as early love, addiction to the Internet, star chasing, parent-child conflicts, and so on. How to correctly guide and solve these problems, we can refer to the works of Mr. Zhang Xuefeng.
Since young people are interested in these issues, we should use their interests to educate and guide them. For example, when parents guide their children to surf the Internet, they can choose some beneficial online resources so that they can learn something while being entertained. For example, for the problem of early love, we can communicate with children to let them understand the dangers of early love and provide appropriate precautions and suggestions. When they encounter parent-child conflicts, we can patiently listen to their thoughts and complaints, and work with them to solve the problem. These are all methods that we can adopt in family education to help children correctly understand problems, deal with problems, and grow up healthily.
As people from the past, we all have some regrets in our Xi and university life. If we can go back to high school, we will definitely study harder and Xi to get into the ideal university;If we go back to university, we will definitely plan our life for four years more reasonably, including taking the English test for CET-4 and 6, obtaining a computer certificate, a teacher's license, a driver's license, and participating in various social practice activities.
In order not to let our children embark on a path of regret, we should do our best to help them improve their Xi grades and get into the university of their dreamsAt the same time, we also need to help them plan their four-year university life, not only to acquire knowledge and skills, but more importantly, to improve their ability to adapt to society. For specific methods and suggestions, you can refer to Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's book, in which he shares his rich experience and knowledge.
By reading Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's books, I have a deeper understanding of current high school students. They grew up in the digital age and were heavily influenced by electronics and the internet. Parents often make mistakes in the process of educating their children, they put too much emphasis on their own experience, and even use violence to solve problems. However, we should properly understand our children's rebellious behavior and communicate with them in a reasoned and evidence-based way to help them grow. In addition, high school students face various problems, such as early love, addiction to the Internet, etc., and parents can help their children grow up healthily by correctly guiding and solving problems. In addition, improving academic Xi grades and planning university life are also important tasks, and we can get a lot of useful suggestions and methods from Mr. Zhang Xuefeng's book. Through our efforts and care, we can help children on a path to success and a bright future for them.