Hello, I'm Junjun.
Life is like climbing a mountain, there are uphill and downhill roads.
If you choose to go downhill, effortlessly, and easily, and then encounter something a little difficult, you will choose the path that is easy for you to take, and once you are addicted, your life will become more and more mediocre.
And those who choose to go uphill are very difficult in the early stage, but they continue to break through themselves, improve their cognition, join better circles, and finally cross the class.
You can compare the following 8 signs of going uphill, if you are going downhill, don't panic, wake up in time, and it's still too late to change from now on.
1. The heart becomes very strong
Accept everything about yourself, have a deep reflection on the past, and then guide the future, don't panic when you encounter things, but think about how to solve them first, and then make a choice.
Low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, family of origin and other problems have been reconciled with yourself, in fact, others don't pay so much attention to you, it's all your own psychology that is at fault, and there is no so-called fate, I believe that I can become the person I want to be.
2. Have clear goals and plans
In the past, my life was muddy and I basically didn't learn Xi, but after I suddenly woke up, I had a clear goal for my life, I knew what I wanted, and I was no longer confused.
We also set long-term and short-term goals, and then break down the big goals into specific small goals and implement them every day.
3. Become more and more self-disciplined and refuse ineffective socialization
What wakes up in the morning is not an alarm clock but a dream, you don't need to find a certain partner, you don't need to complete the agreement of a fine for completing the task, what you want to do every day is very sober and actionable.
No longer discuss gossip issues, and will readily refuse chats without nutrition, what KTV, bars have been far away, streamline their life and friendship circles, and spend time on things and people worth doing.
4. Insist on learning Xi and sports
Have a clear understanding of their own ability, understand little, and write can not continue to output, so go to read books to learn and Xi, and humbly ask others for advice.
Sedentary body fat, poor body shape, arrange half an hour a day to exercise, over time, it becomes the same Xi as brushing teeth and washing face.
There are many benefits of exercise, so that the brain turns faster, the body is shaped, and you will find that after exercising, the daily work efficiency becomes higher.
5. No more complaining and emotional stability
Emotions are your feng shui, don't let 1% of negative emotions ruin 99% of your efforts.
Losing control of emotions can lead to insomnia, reduced work efficiency, and lack of heart to learn Xi, etc., and the butterfly effect caused by this series will take several days to heal.
The real strong person is not hiding his emotions, but learning to manage them.
When encountering troubles, no longer complain, complaining does not solve the problem, it can only increase the troubles in vain, and consume your own energy, but face it calmly and no longer escape. I rarely get angry, because some things are really about your, about me.
6. Don't make excuses and do things steadfastly
Don't make excuses for failure, but find your own subjective problems, laziness, poor execution, or wrong methods, although objective reasons may exist, but not the main one.
Do everything in a down-to-earth manner, instead of several things mixed together, and in the end none of them are completed.
7. Rely on yourself and don't pin your hopes on anyone
Relying too much on one person, you will live a very low voice, and there is no weight in talking at home, once this person is separated from you, do you have the ability to survive?
Relying on everyone will fall, recognize this principle as soon as possible, and you will understand that the real sense of security is ** in yourself, not too dependent on one person, butTake yourself as a backer and take the initiative in your own hands.
No matter how the people around you change, you always have the ability to give yourself a piece of heaven.
8. Actively expand channels to make money
In addition to going to work, I am also exploring side hustles outside the workplace, letDiversify revenue channels.
As a working person, it is common for people to come home from work all day to play mobile games on their mobile phones, and a small number of people use their after-work time to learn Xi skills and study side hustles.
After a year or two, people who do well will find that their side hustle income exceeds that of their main business, and they are no longer afraid of company layoffs, salary cuts, etc., and have the confidence to leave the workplace.
Anyway:Every step is an uphill road, if you are not going well at this time, there must be ten times a hundred times the good luck waiting for you to catch it, please hold on.
-end-
Light up [Like] and become a better version of yourself with Junjun.