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When the opposite sex is together, it feels like they get along well again, two people are independent individuals, pursuing personal space, people who have a quiet time to think, and once they want to be each other, at this time, crossing the border will disturb each other, which may lead to boredom on the other side, and there may be some problems in the relationship between the two.
At the same time, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, there are some things that they don't want the other person to know, and they hope that the other party can respect them, understand them, don't ask too much, don't interfere too much in their own affairs. If the other person is not interested and always touches these things, they may get tired of each other and the two people may end up estranged from each other.
If you don't want to see such a result, you must know that the best way to get along between lovers is: three don't touch, can you do it?
1.Don't touch their "privacy".
In life, everyone has their own little secrets, whether it is an embarrassing thing experienced in the past or an unpleasant thing that they encounter now, there are some things that they don't want to tell their partner and don't let people know.
If you feel that the relationship between you is good, the other party should not hide their own things from themselves, should not keep "privacy", cross the line at will, and repeatedly interrogate, the other party may feel uneasy, which is not conducive to the development of your relationship.
Between lovers, we must know how to respect each other, we must know how to give each other some private space, and not touching each other's privacy is a kind of trust and respect for each other, when you can do this, the other party will also feel at ease, which can often promote the development of the relationship between two people.
2.Don't touch their bottom line.
Between lovers, if they don't know how to consider each other, don't consider each other's feelings, focus on themselves, make requests to each other at will, and don't ask each other's opinions.
Some people act recklessly, do something that is difficult for the other party to accept, and also ask the other party to accept themselves in the name of love, which often leads to the dissatisfaction of the other party, and the relationship between the two people is getting worse and worse.
When getting along with the opposite sex, you must know how to empathize, think more about each other, take the initiative to understand each other's taboos, don't easily touch each other's bottom line, and don't challenge each other's bottom line and patience, only in this way can the relationship between two people be maintained for a long time.
3.Don't touch the other person's "hidden pain".
Who lives in the world without "pain of life"?There is some hidden pain, which the other party is unwilling to mention, and you accidentally touch it, awakening the other party's painful memory, will make the other party hurt again, why?
In the process of getting along, some couples are full of curiosity about each other's hidden pain, and often touch each other's hidden pain in the name of love to test each other's tolerance for themselves, but they don't know that doing so will disappoint each other, and it is difficult for the relationship between the two to develop deeply.
In the process of getting along, husband and wife should take into account each other's feelings, not to say that they will hurt each other, do not touch each other's pain at will, and only by truly respecting each other can the relationship between two people be maintained for a long time.