Two days ago, my sister said that last weekend she took her children to the wedding of a wealthy family.
This family not only didn't want her red envelope, but also sealed a red envelope for the child to come back.
My sister said: I have never encountered such a thing before, this is the real rich people's thinking!
I think a lot about this incident, and I think that rich people should have a "rich mindset" before they become rich, rather than getting rich first to have a "rich mindset".
My friend H, who is the boss, once told me, "I prefer to invite people to dinner rather than invite them to dinner." ”
This is also the thinking of a rich man, I have known her for almost 20 years, and I have indeed watched her get richer and richer.
Well, there is already a conclusion at this point.
What if the poor want to get rich?Let's change from "poor people's thinking" to "rich people's thinking"!
How exactly will it be transformed?Let me give you a few real-life examples.
If a person becomes rich has a lot to do with the "rich thinking", then a person's poverty also has a lot to do with the "poor thinking".
Before I practiced, I had a proper poor mindset. (So I've been really poor for a long time.) ）
Many years ago, I was teaching at a school, and one day when I came home from school, I said to my mother, "Teacher N in our school, he is so stingy!".”
My mom understood me very well and asked, "How do you compare?"”
I told the truth: "She's worse than me." ”
I remember laughing out loud when I said this, not knowing that this was the reason why I was poor.
I realized that I had moved from a "poor man mentality" to a "rich man mentality" when I was going to a friend's house last July to take a break and bring a bunch of things to my friend.
I thought, "My friends must be very welcoming to me!"Then the next thought was: "If I give like this, I will be very popular no matter where I go!."”
And then I was happy.
Why?Because I used to be very stingy, I just wanted to eat and drink when I went to my friends' places, and I thought it would prove that my friends really loved me.
But I know in my heart that it's all troublesome for me to go to **, don't say welcome to others, it's good if you don't hate me!
Last weekend, I made an appointment with my friend w.
She said: "Sister, my family burden is so heavy, I'm so tired." I had just bought a refrigerator for my family, and my mom and sister asked me for money. ”
I know she's been helping the family, but not so reluctantly.
I said, "Within the limits of your ability, in the future, your mother and sister will ask for a hundred, and you will give two hundred."If you ask for a thousand, you give two thousand.
w was stunned. I said, "If you have the heart to support a family, you will have the opportunity to obtain the wealth of supporting a family;If you have the heart to nurture sentient beings, you will have the opportunity to obtain the wealth of nurturing sentient beings. ”
w said: Wow, sister, if you say so, I won't be tired at all to help the family. Ha ha.