What is the family style?In fact, family style is the atmosphere of a family, and this atmosphere can be inherited. Family style is an invisible educational force, a wordless education, and a wordless dictionary.
A good family style can imperceptibly affect the hearts of everyone in the family, shape their personality, and is the foundation of a family's prosperity.
On December 3, in Xuzhou, Jiangsu Province, a man shared that his father was sick and hospitalized, and his three sons rushed back from 500 kilometers away. The son said that because his grandfather was sick before, his father did the same.
The man shared that the family's economic conditions are average, but everyone works hard. Usually, the three brothers take their wives and children to work far away from home. The parents are not too old and in good physical condition, so they stayed in their hometown.
At that time, my father was sick in his hometown and was unconscious, and only my mother was by my side, and my mother was in a hurry and didn't know what to do. When I received my mother**, although I was hundreds of kilometers away, I still dialed 120** as soon as possible.
When my father arrived at the hospital, he woke up quickly, and the three brothers immediately drove back from 500 kilometers away.
When the father saw his three sons, he said that he was fine, but he was just confused and fainted. After the examination, the father was indeed fine, and the doctor said that he would be fine after a few days of observation, and he could be discharged from the hospital.
The three brothers guarded their father in the hospital and took care of him every step of the way. The reason why the three brothers are so filial to their father is because there is a family inheritance.
The man said that from childhood to adulthood, his father also honored his grandfather in this way. My father has been living with my grandfather since he got married, and when my grandfather is older, my father's care for my grandfather can be said to be considerate.
These sons are all in their eyes, and now that their father is sick, the son should also take care of him as he took care of his grandfather. At that time, the three of them surrounded his father alone, and the doctors and ** from the hospital came to see. I feel that my father is very blessed.
When a father is sick, it is normal for a son to stay at the bedside to take care of him, but few children can do this. Usually the children come to take a look, leaving one person to take care of them, and the others are gone. Only when the old man is critically ill will the other children appear.
There was also an interesting episode in the ward at that time, when the youngest brother was tired from sitting on the side, and his father actually let him lie down on the hospital bed. The father and son were crammed into a very small hospital bed, and this scene was ridiculed, if it weren't for you, the youngest brother, your father would have been discharged from the hospital.
Among the three sons, Dad loves his little brother the most. Although the little brother can't help much when he comes back, as long as the younger brother is around, Dad is the most at ease.
In this regard, some netizens said, who said that raising children can't prevent old age?Look, when the old father is sick, the three sons are so nervous. That's what raising a child is all about.
Some netizens said that as a son, you must lead by example, because you are the mirror of the children. As you do to your parents, your children will do to you in the future. To be kind to the elderly is to be kind to yourself tomorrow.
However, some people say that the father is in a coma, and it is normal for the son to come home. In this regard, some netizens said that everyone thinks it is normal, but in fact, many people can't do it. There is an old man in our community who has spent most of his life trying to lift his son abroad, and he has been dead for a year and a half, and his son has not returned. Now my mother can't leave, so I ask a nanny to take care of her.
This seems to be a very common thing, but it is actually not usual. The sons have all married and have family pressure, and their fathers naturally have to take care of them when they are sick. But my father is fine, and the three of them are still by my side, which is touching.
The son also said that when my father was young, he also treated my grandfather like this, and now we treat my father like this. This is the inheritance of filial piety.
What do you have to say about this?