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Give the girl four swords, and in 2024 you will all be open, strong, happy, and rich.
First, courage is a prerequisite for all virtues。Life is the best pusher, life pushes all of us forward, most people give in, give up, and continue to live a life they don't like because they are afraid of failure, fear of difficulties, and fear of being excluded by others.
But you can't give in, you have to fight to grow into an iron warrior and crush everyone, only then will you be worthy of your suffering.
But if you are timid, cowardly, afraid of risks, afraid of failure, afraid of ridicule, then every time life pushes you, you will choose to give up your life, and nothing will change.
Growing up is painful and anti-human. Success and happiness belong to the bold, this is a harsh and hard to hear, but unfortunately, it is the truth.
The brave make the rules, and the timid obey the rules. But if you are strong enough, others will obey the rules of your world. Oprah Winfrey also said in his speech that you must sit in the driver's seat of life and control your course, otherwise you will be at the mercy of life and fate.
Difficulties and setbacks are a signal, life pushes you, and every victory you win is like a change of track, he pushes you to a better track, thus throwing off the old track.
I particularly like a quote from "Antifragile": the wind extinguishes the candle, but it makes the fire burn brighter and stronger.
You will be a fire, longing for the wind.
Second, anger is your most powerful**, learn to use it。Many times, our motivation for change stems from intense anger, anger at where we come from, anger at what we have encountered and pain, anger at unfairness, anger at wanting to prove ourselves.
This anger will inspire you to act very strongly, which is a secret that you must know, make good use of this tool. I really like a book called "Late Night Gas Station Meet Socrates", there is a very shocking sentence in it, it says that anger is more powerful than fear, more powerful than sadness, proof that your heart is growing and you are ready to accept the "sword".
Fear and grief are both bad things that will only drag you into the mud, will make you lose your strength, constantly consume you, and inhibit your actions. And anger will motivate you to act, inspiring you to have a strong sense of determination, strength, and desire to fight.
In fact, my motivation to overcome a lot of setbacks is largely due to my anger at what happened, I am unwilling, I don't give in, I don't bow my head, so I must win a game.
Robert Kiyosaki also said that passion is a combination of anger and love, it is your "sword", every girl must take advantage of your anger, it is a treasure, don't throw it away.
Third, give up changing anyone and only yourself。Many times you don't realize that your subconscious mind has a deep-seated obsession to change others, so you are miserable and unable to change others.
The kind of pain that can't change the outcome will drain your energy, and to put it mildly, it may end up ruining you. In fact, in many cases, we can really only change ourselves.
Adler also said that all interpersonal pain stems from our desire to change and shape others according to our own ideas, whether it is our biological parents, friends, colleagues, everyone is the same.
When we no longer expect to change anyone, just make a choice, life will be much simpler, choose what you like, stay away from what you don't like, give up the idea of changing anyone, and the troubles will disappear immediately.
And more importantly, it's faster and easier to change yourself, and you're in control. When complaining, internal friction, and suffering, it may be this wrong thought that comes up again, and then you have to cut it off again until it is completely eliminated.
Fourth, desire is power and motivation。Boldly pursue wealth, money is not sinful, what is sinful is thought, desire is not evil, greed is.
There is a desire to pursue a better life, a desire to become better, and it proves that you are a normal person. Desire is your strongest motivation, and it is desire that pushes all of us forward.
Human nature is to like novelty and change, no one likes the boring life day after day, but timidity and cowardice make many people begin to suppress their nature.
There are also some people who just want to get rich, but they don't want to put in the effort, and they rush to achieve it, so they step into the abyss of greed. Therefore, it is necessary to pursue wealth in the right way and avoid going crazy.
Short-sighted and harmful things must not be done, and without a material basis, happiness will probably not be complete. So boldly, positively, and brightly pursue your wealth, write your desire on your face, I just want it, I just deserve it.
In the process of using your brain to make money, your brain will become smarter, your knowledge and wisdom will increase, and your abilities will also improve. In your pursuit of wealth, you will also become more and more dazzling and more confident.
The most important thing is that you can buy the best thing in the world by working hard to earn money, and that is freedom. The greatest meaning of wealth is not to show off, not to compare, but to be free.
First, freedom of time. You can choose to work or not to work, and how long you work each day per year, and you can stop whenever you want and go wherever you want.
Second, freedom of interpersonal relationships. You can choose to only reach out to people you like, reject most of the people you don't like, and spend time with family and friends instead of boring clients or colleagues.
Third, freedom of purpose. Only do what you like, pursue your own career and ideals, instead of working hard for other people's ideals and careers. The only thing in this world that is worth your best and what you want to pursue all your life is freedom.
Finally, hopefully, in 2024, every girl will be able to sharpen these four swords to the brim. Be courageous, use anger, let go of obsessions, and embrace desires. Be brave and upright to pursue your happy life, to change paths, to evolve, to upgrade, to become stronger and better people.
The path is full of thorns, but it will leave you far behind. See you higher in life in 2024!
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