Don t be consumed by opposing choices

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-30

I was struggling when I got off work in the afternoon, and then I worked overtime for a while.

I'm struggling with saying that I feel like I have unfinished business, and I think it's better to catch up. But I don't want to work overtime anymore, and I haven't been motivated lately. The sense of responsibility and the need to relax are contradictory together. So after the entanglement, this matter became me fishing here, meaningless overtime.

In fact, there is no need, be happy, don't be indecisive, one is one, two is two. You want to work, you want to relax, and you get screwed up when these two get together.

I had to be decisive when I made a decision, but fortunately, I was also decisive in the end, so I just left, otherwise I might still be grinding and chirping there and working overtime, and then I didn't do anything.

It's just a small reflex, I'm dragging my feet on a lot of things, including some times when I need to make a choice, which is not good, and I've been very unhappy with the fidgeting and opposing views of the choice many times. That's a key question for me, because that's what I do most of the time.

Judging something like that,Either think about whether you should do it or not, or let it go to please yourself。We can't always be caught in the middle of a positive and negative affair, which is not good for our psyche and will allow the negative energy to accumulate and will always explode later.

Many people have similar entanglements, it is recommended to stop internal friction, rush to the front line when it is time to charge, and you may as well relax yourself when you don't need to be extra motivated. Of course, you must also make a choice as soon as possible, and the longer you delay, the more tormented your heart will be. And whether it is right or wrong to choose not to say badly is man-made, and we use facts to prove it.

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