Some people say that in this life, people must have a trip that they can go and go, and they must have a desperate love. However, will desperate love have a perfect ending?I beg to differ.
I think this sentence should be said like this: people should be able to enjoy the travel of their own life as soon as they say, and they must also manage the love that they do not care for.
Love is not a woman's talisman, women are too simple and often forget to love themselves, women can have love, they can love wholeheartedly, they can also love to death, but they must not lose themselves. Many women are so innocent that they forget that only if they love themselves, can a man love her.
Women are not more than the more they pay, the more they can tie up the man, the simple woman will leave the best for the man, and she is reluctant to use it herself, and the man will be very generous when she uses it;Pure women revolve around men, men are the sky, is everything;A simple woman will give up her rights to meet the needs of men.
There will definitely be more and more women who are hurt in love who ask such questions: Why do the more they give, the more they can't tie up a man?
In fact, the answer is obvious, but the woman who is blinded by love does not realize that wishful thinking will not only lose herself in the illusion of love, but more often, it seems that giving wholeheartedly will actually become an invisible pressure When the other party can't bear this burden, they will naturally choose to leave you.
And many times, in the process of continuous sacrifice for love, we gradually lose ourselves.
After being crushed, he became a mediocre person who guarded love, immersed in the gains and losses of love and couldn't extricate himself. Blindly use your own efforts to achieve lovers, and forget to treat yourself, when you lose the brilliance of your original independent self-confidence, love will also leave you, girls don't let themselves lose confidence because of paying.
Woman, you just have to love yourself.
In this way, it will be easier for others to see your charm and will praise you, you will get more confidence from these praises, and you will live more brilliantly and always maintain your enthusiasm for life.
Stop saying stupid things like "I love you more than I love myself." Don't think that love is a fearless "giving". The wisdom of a woman lies in the eternal attraction to him, and this attraction does not come from giving, but from valuing and loving herself. If you have to sacrifice too much love, it is not real love.
If you want to tie up a man, a woman should maintain her sanity and self, even if she falls in love with someone without hesitation, she must always remember that the more you pay, the more you can tie up the man. Otherwise, he will inevitably get used to your connivance, ignore your efforts, and even begin to despise you, disrespect you, and snub you.
At that time, his departure from you is probably irretrievably a foregone conclusion.
This society is less and less welcoming to desperate love. Although love needs to be paid, it must be measured. Especially women, who want to tie up men's hearts with giving, can only get abandonment and hurt as a result. I hope that girls can understand that only rational love, appropriate giving and taking, is the proper attitude towards love.