Expert Zheng Bingwen is on fire!
Recently, expert Zheng Bingwen put forward the view that "it is difficult to raise a baby and temporarily ask relatives for help", which immediately attracted widespread attention and heated discussions among netizens.
The comment area is even more ridiculous, and many netizens think: Watching experts speak is funnier than sketches!
In the opinion of expert Zheng, some young people are not as willing to have children as before due to the pressure of life, he understands very well, but also regrets it.
For this phenomenon, experts give what he thinks is feasible.
That is, you can turn to relatives for help.
The ideal is very full, but the reality is cruel
Some netizens borrowed their own stories to illustrate that what the experts said was not feasible at all.
This netizen said: My mother gave birth to a child so poor that she couldn't take it, so she asked for help from relatives and sent herself to her aunt's house, but she was beaten out by her uncle and beaten until she was incontinent, and her spirit was stimulated and sick.
Some netizens said: Don't believe the experts, the difficulty of having a child is not temporary.
said that his son is 14 years old, and there are more and more difficulties, worrying about the child's myopia becoming more and more serious, worrying about the child's braces, worrying about whether the child can be admitted to a good high school, worrying about whether the child can be admitted to college, whether he can be admitted to graduate school, whether he can find a good job, whether he can marry a daughter-in-law, and worrying about buying him a wedding house, a car, and a bride price.
And asked the experts, which of these things is not difficult for ordinary people?
It is the duty of others to help you, but it is the duty not to help you
Whether it is relatives or friends, others have no obligation to help you, especially to spend money, spend time and energy to help you, it is rare to help occasionally, and it is no wonder that you don't turn your face after a long time.
Moreover, the vast majority of people who are unwilling to have children are mostly young people born in the 90s, many of whom are only children, and the pressure of providing for the elderly is very great, plus the pressure of life is also great, once they have children, they can't afford to raise them at all.
Ask your parents for help?Many people's parents have no income at all**, if the health is not good, it is good not to drag down the children, and it is difficult to point to them to help take care of the children and raise the children.
Ask for help from relatives?Most of the current relatives will only walk around during the New Year's holidays, and they basically have no feelingsDon't even think about it.
Ask a friend for helpTo be honest, your own level is there, and the people you meet are all people of the same level, you can't afford to raise children, and others are also together, how can you have spare money, and idle time, to help you?
Ordinary people can meet rich friends, and that will only appear in TV dramas.
Therefore, although the experts are thinking about young people, they are worried that once the effective fertility period has passed, it will be a little too late to regret it.
Everyone understands the truth, but for the general public, the reality simply does not allow it.
Saying that these can only be tantamount to sprinkling salt on the wound, which is both painful and not conducive to wound healing.
Netizens' opinions:
As soon as the expert's remarks came out, the Internet was in an uproar, and netizens couldn't sit still and expressed their opinions one after another, which was both heart-wrenching and realistic.
Some people say: Who judged these experts?Ask for help from relatives?Can you be our relative?
Some people say that if you ask for help from your relatives, you should ask for help from this expert.
Some people also use "why not eat minced meat" to say that experts are separated from the masses of the people, and they don't know what the problem is
Others said, "Where did the poor come from?"
As the saying goes, the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor don't ask in the downtown area.
In fact, most of their own wishes are not that they do not want to give birth, but that they do not dare to give birth at all in reality.
Today's adults, work pressure alone may be enough to crush a person, experts may not know, before it was exposed on the Internet that a man could not ask for bereavement leave from the company because of the death of his family, in such a situation, do you let him dare to have children?
I'm too busy to take care of myself, how can I take care of others?
Expert Zheng Bingwen is already a 68-year-old man, and when he sees the problems in society, he expresses his views and opinions out of consideration for the society.
Although the starting point is good, I also hope that experts can be down-to-earth when expressing their views and opinions.