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Introduction: People are cultivating a state in this life, in fact, this kind of realm is to cultivate oneself, cultivate virtue, and repair the heart, and the road of life will be smooth.
01. Comfortable.
Teacher Void Ji said that there is such a realm between people, comfortable, this kind of comfort is natural comfort, comfortable for oneself, and comfortable for others.
I can't help but think deeply, in order to achieve such a state of life, how to cultivate oneself?
We have to be ourselves, that's the first thing, if we don't be ourselves, we please others, we cater to others, then we will be uncomfortable, we will not be happy.
Be yourself, it's natural and comfortable.
Cultivate your own morality, cultivate your own heart, and seek inward in everything, gradually, life will become more and more comfortable.
A lot of our philistines disturb ourselves and suffer a lot because we seek outwardly, so that our relationship with others is not so harmonious and not very comfortable.
I'm just doing my best, this self will not harm others and benefit myself, this self is also the self I like.
As you walk, you will gradually understand life.
02. Transparent.
In fact, the entanglement between people is because they are not transparent enough, they can't understand it, and they can't see it clearly, so they choose to be entangled.
Even if the other party no longer loves himself, even if the other party no longer has himself in his eyes, even if the other party dislikes himself, he still chooses to be entangled.
If learning is not thorough, then life is destined to be a pain.
The realm of life, transparent, how to be transparent?Then to improve yourself, then to study hard, to constantly break through, to harvest wisdom, to harvest growth.
Others can look down on you, others can do what they want to do, but they can't stop us from changing ourselves, whoever is strong has the right to speak, and whoever becomes more transparent is better.
The realm of life, be transparent, don't stand still, standing still will only make others look down on you more, but one day we are transparent, and everything is not a thing.
Because I have been far away from trouble, away from pain.
03. Mentality.
There is such a story that Lao Li was terminally ill, and the doctor predicted that he would not live for more than three months.
But Lao Li didn't take it to heart, but gave up all the choices to travel, and never thought that Lao Li would go to the hospital for a re-examination a year later, but the results of the examination were normal.
Why did Lao Li recover?Maybe many people say that this is a mystery, but in fact it is not, Lao Li chose to give up everything to travel to a distant place, relax his mind, and not think so much.
Because Lao Li's mentality is good, Lao Li defeated the disease, so a person's mentality often plays an important role.
When you feel that life is hopeless, then this is also the time when you are robbed, even if you are in the abyss, but you have hope, it is very likely that you will counterattack life.
There are many diseases caused by mentality, and if the mentality is adjusted, then the disease will be cured.
Mentality is the guiding light in life, which can illuminate your life path and make you walk smoothly and steadily.
The realm of life is nothing more than this.
04. Three realms of life: comfort, transparency, and mentality.
People who feel comfortable with each other are often themselves.
Have your own thoughts, your own ideas, and your own virtues, and don't go with the flow, and don't suffer from gains and losses.
will never live in the eyes of others, will not be wronged, and will not be humble and pleased, but be honest and honest.
When we look inward, when we don't have so much demand for the outside world, in fact, many times we are liberated.
As for the rest, it will be left to time, maybe God will arrange it more thoughtfully.
Only by serving the public with virtue can we go further, and after choosing this road, although it is long and difficult, but we are harvesting and others are also benefiting, which is a healthy relationship.
Don't complain in life, don't feel that anyone has failed you, don't feel that anyone is sorry for you, your heart is strong enough, you will not be burdened by it, you will not be hurt by it.
Instead, they will look at everything calmly, everything in life, they will naturally come when they should come, and they will naturally leave when they should leave.
With a transparent heart, looking at the complex things in the world, treating people with a peaceful heart, and treating people with a comfortable attitude, life may slowly become better.
It turns out that as long as a person starts to cultivate, as long as a person starts to cultivate himself, the whole world will be kind to you.
There is also such a story, Lao Wang was terminally ill, and the doctor said that he would not live for more than a month, but his daughter did not give up, and took care of her carefully to survive year after year, and has survived for 10 years.
In short, the three realms of life, mentality, transparency, comfort, and doing it are our blessings.
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