The son of a colleague, graduated from 211 University. After entering the university, he did not take the postgraduate examination, indulged in games all day long, and graduated from college after failing the make-up exam. 5 of the 6 people in the same dormitory were successfully admitted to graduate school, and he was the only one who spent his days messing around. As the graduation time approached, everyone found a job, or succeeded in the graduate school entrance examination, only he was still holding his mobile phone, playing games and dizzy all day long, and finally even the teacher couldn't stand it anymore, and introduced a job. But the bear child is still like that, late for work, not serious about work. My colleague had no choice but to let him go home for the exam.
I took several exams in a row, and the results were the same, and the unprepared test was definitely a failure. The colleague said that his son still plays games as always, and there is no difference between going to school and usually. It was his parents, my colleague, who were anxious. Paying attention to exams here and there all day can be described as anxious, and colleagues are worried.
Every time I encounter such a situation, I patiently persuade him that others have taken the exam for three years, five years, or even ten years, and they can take the exam until they are 35 years old, and according to the child's current age, there are still 12 years to take the exam. You see those who successfully go ashore, who can be admitted at once. You have to make a plan for at least three years, and it's only been less than half a year since the exam, and you're so anxious, so that in the end, if the child doesn't go crazy, you're going crazy. My colleague said so, I'm about to collapse, what should I do?