At the beginning of November, I had just found a new job and needed to travel to Tongren for at least a week, so I brought a change of clothes.
In the early morning of the next day, I had breakfast downstairs in the hotel, and because I was working **, I left my suitcase at the breakfast shop.
On the morning of November 8, the third day, I realized that I had forgotten my suitcase.
Because the hotel was booked on Meituan, I contacted the boss to help me go to check the luggage, and sure enough, it was at the breakfast shop. I asked my boss to send it for me.
In addition to opening a hotel, the boss still makes sofas, understands express delivery**, and says that my trolley box is more expensive than throwing freight, and I only care about the box and don't care about these.
Then the boss said that my suitcase said that the lock was not buckled, is there a problem with this, and what is inside?
I truthfully replied that there were only two books in it, a razor, a change of clothes, and then all kinds of rainbow farts in the hope that the boss would be attentive when he helped me. 
Then the boss suddenly had no news, because I couldn't rush to ask for help.
On November 9th, I called the boss, and the boss said that he had something to send yet, and he didn't hear what was going on the highway at that time, but he didn't refuse me, and I must be polite.
The boss of the 10th still didn't send it.
I began to mutter, did the boss really have a conscience for that little thing?
On the 11th, I called the boss again, I was worried that he was unwilling to send, and said that I placed an order myself, and the courier came to pick up the parcel, and the boss said that on the ninth he told me that he had a cold and went to the infusion, and he was not at home, and I realized that what he said was this thing.
But I was skeptical in my heart, not to mention the cold and the infusion for a few days, and there was no one in his house?
I'm 99% suspicious of the boss's greed for my things, but I didn't tear the last layer of window paper, and I joked with my girlfriend, saying that the boss wouldn't take a fancy to my ** that hasn't been worn yet!
There was still no news on the 12th, and I became a little angry in my heart, how could the little suitcase He De verify the conscience of the boss.
I couldn't be angry, and I planned to spend a few hundred yuan on the fare to rush back to teach this boss a lesson.
On the 13th, the boss contacted me and said that he was discharged from the hospital, confirmed the address with me, and then helped me send my things over. The reversal was so sudden, and I felt extremely guilty in my heart. 
Coincidentally, it was almost 10 o'clock on the night I came back from a business trip, so I asked my eldest brother, who was on a business trip with me, to take me home, so that I didn't have to take a taxi.
The eldest brother had already said that he had something to do when he went home, and said that he would let me go to his house for dinner and come back by subway.
It's my sister's birthday, and if I go to his house and take the subway from there, how late will it be.
I argued that the main thing is that the way back to the company is far away, and then take the subway, it takes more than 30 minutes to get out of the subway and pour the small electric donkey, and the place where I live is two kilometers away from the high-speed exit, so it is better to work hard for him to send me back first.
The eldest brother didn't speak, and I could only guess in my heart, and when I came back, I saw that the toll booth in front of me turned out to be Baiyun District, and I felt that this big brother was really too much, and he really didn't care about me at all
I was sulking in my heart, and I was ready to get out of the car and take a taxi home, and I was ready to find the company for reimbursement when the time came.
Unexpectedly, we passed by the toll booth and ended up on my side.
It turned out that the direction of our return would be to pass through Baiyun District first, and then return to my side.
It is equivalent to the eldest brother who needs to send me back, and then pour back from the city to Baiyun District.
I couldn't help but feel a little guilty in my heart.
Looking at cognitive awakening in the past few days, it mentions that people's bad emotions often have a single perspective, only looking at the problem from their own perspective, and it really makes sense.
The book also mentions a sentence from Wu Jun about interacting with people: "I generally assume that anyone is upright, kind and honest. ”
I admit that I was lucky these few times, because surely not everyone will encounter such a kind thing as I did.
If I'm not mistaken, my parents took me out to work in the early 2000s, dragging a freshly killed pig in the big city.
At that time, an adult was left to watch me and my luggage, and I couldn't help but take a few steps forward, and the adult saw that he hurriedly pulled me back, and the bag of pork was gone.
But these two things I encountered in succession made me have a feeling, just like Wu Jun said, let's assume that the person I am dating is honest, kind, and honest.
It's the way I choose to do things, and I don't usually define it, I look at it before I judge, so it's also a challenge for me, and I don't even know if I can do it.
Of course, there is one more thing that makes me determined to practice in this way first.
In October, I prepared for the law exam, resigned, and my salary in September was still on the card as usual, and I paid the rent and told the landlord that I might pay the rent later next month because of my work.
The landlord said that if I passed the test, he would give me a month's rent waiver.
I also joked that I would have told her earlier if I had known, and if she told me in advance that I would be exempted from paying rent if I passed the exam, I would be a little more motivated.
When the rent was paid in November, the results had not yet been released, and the landlord directly said that the rent was free this month.
I said I haven't got my grades yet.
The landlord said that it was okay, and that if I couldn't get out, I should be encouraged to try to move forward!
I choked up for a moment.
I don't think there's a lack of malice in life, but there's also no lack of kindness, and the best way to get every kindness respected is to see it as good at the beginning, even if it's a disguise of malice.
I don't want to be a teacher, but I hope what I encounter can warm your heart.
I'm Shiwu, asking for attention, likes, and shares.