After the freshman enrolls, the senior sister advises that you should avoid going to specific places, and it is easy to lose yourself
Sister's advice: For new students, it is better not to go to these places because it is easy to get lost.
A university is not a refuge, it is not just a campus, but a place where you can transform from a student to a member of society.
When I was in high school, there was no one thing that teachers said the most"It's easy to go to college"。Therefore, after the college entrance examination, many high school students, especially freshmen, will take:"Relaxed and pleasant"The mentality to meet university life.
While both college and high school are centered around Xi, college is much more liberal. Compared to high school, high school is basically all about Xi and there is almost no time off.
Since there is no fixed teacher to supervise college life and parents are not around, students with poor self-control can easily lose their way and embark on the road of self-abandonment if they are not careful.
Some students suggested that the following places are not suitable for freshmen. Although it is difficult to get into college, not everyone comes here with the dream of further education, and many people become very lazy after graduating from college and indulge in entertainment every day.
Since there is no supervision, it is rare for the counselors to see them once a month, and the students who like to be lively get together and only think about it every day"See the world"。
Today's college students have a colorful and well-informed life, but if they don't have enough self-discipline, they are also prone to degenerate. Some students suggested that first-year students who have just entered university should avoid going to the following places.
The first place that new students don't recommend going to is the disco bar. Young people are adventurous, especially curious about inexperienced people, and are more willing to try new things unsupervised.
Many freshmen are excited about going to discos and bars, but are easy prey to others due to their lack of social experience. To keep yourself safe and avoid causing trouble to schools and parents, it's best to give up the idea of going to a nightclub.
The second place that is not recommended for new students is the Internet café. In secondary school, due to their busy academic schedules, students' main pastime may be playing computer games in an internet café. Due to the limited internet speed at home, they can only meet at the Internet café to entertain together.
In the tense atmosphere of the college entrance examination, there is always not enough time, and there will be a great sense of regret. And after entering college, time is relatively free, and people who lack self-control will fall into the quagmire of playing games all night.
Staying up late to play games at the beginning of college will definitely have a negative impact on the rest of your Xi. If you don't adapt to college life as soon as possible, these four years will become very difficult, and you may not even have any hope of graduating.
The third place that is not recommended for new students is the bathing center. Although today's young people are focused on enjoying life and are willing to pay for the quality of life, the safety of bathing centers around universities is difficult to assess, especially for first-year students, and the risk of accidents in an unfamiliar environment is inevitable.
The pursuit of a better quality of life is certainly possible, but if you are too thin and indulge in everyday pleasures, whether it is beauty or massage, it is a huge waste of time and financial resources.
Despite the stress of the college entrance examination and the crucial grades, many students suddenly become very relaxed after entering the university, and only think about having fun every day, completely ignoring their Xi and grades.
University life is full of freedom, but it doesn't mean that it's wasted. Nowadays, there are many college students who want to try everything except Xi, and gradually deviate from the right path.
The result is failure, repetition, inability to pass the fourth and sixth years, inability to obtain professional certificates, liberalism, lack of self-control and, in most cases, the tragic reality of unemployment after completing school.
Real college life should look like this: a college classroom should not be taken lightly. If you think that you can listen to the class with the help of your brothers and sisters, and then skip the class at will, you are very wrong. The reality is that with more than 40 courses to complete in four years of college, the academic burden is much heavier than you think, and it is completely self-conscious, otherwise failing courses and repeating grades will become a reality.
The key to university Xi is to arrange your time wisely and complete the plan step by step. It is important not to forget that learning Xi is the most important thing.
Colleges don't have to care too much"Friendship"。Some people believe that living under the same roof in college means that they are good friends who can take care of each other, so sacrifices should be made for friendship. But in fact, more than 90% of college roommates will lose touch after graduation, and the former friendship is only a superficial relationship, and your real effort may not be rewarded in the end.
Comparatively, a university is more of a small society that requires a certain level of social and communication skills. In this process, we may be a little selfish, but it is more important to take care of ourselves and add value to ourselves, so that we can be more valuable.
You don't have to be a member of a college association. If you want to develop your skills, it makes more sense to choose a part-time job than to join an association, after all, part-time work can be paid and can also add some practical experience.
In reality, college societies are far from being as simple as you might think, and a lot of experienced people make negative comments about obvious bureaucracy and complicated interpersonal relationships that make you doubt life.
On the other hand, the growth of an individual is not as slow as the growth of a team. In college, you need to cultivate your interests in a targeted way to make yourself truly strong.
Overall, college students, as adults, must be aware of being responsible for their own lives. Work hard to learn Xi when it's time to learn Xi, and rest well when it's time to rest, otherwise it's easy to get lost.
Today's topic: As a college student, can you give some advice to the younger students?