Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge
Should I be honest with my friends?Frankness should not be frank or not to friends, it is not possible to generalize, frank and straightforward should be for the good of friends, on the premise of paying attention to the purpose, occasion and method of frank and straightforward speech.
Frankness and outspokenness cannot be without purpose. To be frank and straightforward is not for the sake of vomiting for yourself, but for the good of your friends. The basis of friendship between friends is sincerity, and the purpose is to be better for each other. Don't think that sincerity means that you must be frank, and don't think that frankness must be sincere. Only sincerely for the good of each other is what friends should do. If being frank and outspoken can sincerely benefit a friend, then you should be frank and straightforward;But sometimes being frank and outspoken is not really good for your friends, and the result may be counterproductive, so you should not be frank and outspoken at this time.
To be frank and outspoken, you have to pay attention to the occasion. Under normal circumstances, frankness is good for friends, but frankness also has to pay attention to the occasion, some occasions are not suitable for frankness, but should be temporarily silenced, otherwise, frankness is frank, but the result may hurt the feelings and face of friends.
To be frank and outspoken, you have to be methodical. Most of the time, being frank and straightforward is more straightforward;But sometimes, it is easy to hurt the feelings and face of friends if it is too direct, and it is also necessary to express the content that needs to be spoken bluntly by means of euphemism and endorsement by others.