Vinny Sha Tu Nisha
There is an old family member, if there is a treasure;There are two elders in the family, and happiness is both high. ”
As the saying goes, family affection is like water, and you know whether you are warm or cold. In the fast-paced modern society, the harmony of family relationships can often be glimpsed from some casual small details.
As parents, we always expect our children to care for us, but sometimes we neglect to pay close attention to what they say and do. Next, let's explore whether there is a place for us in our children's hearts through five small details.
1. Pay attention to your child's eye contact
The eyes are the windows to the soul. This statement is not false at all. When we talk to our children, whether their eyes are focused, respectful and caring, these are all very important signals.
For example, my old friend Lao Zhang, his daughter looked at him intently every time she talked to him, and that serious demeanor made him deeply feel his daughter's respect for him.
2. Pay attention to your children's daily greetings
Not seen for a day, such as three autumns. ”
Although modern communication is well developed, face-to-face greetings are still the most direct and sincere way to express themselves.
My neighbor Xiao Wang would go to his parents' room every day when he came home from work, and this simple daily Xi not only reflected his filial piety, but also made his parents feel warm.
3. Observe your child's performance at special moments
Prosperity makes friends, adversity tries them. "When faced with difficulties or special moments, children's reactions are often a true reflection of their inner feelings.
When one of my relatives was sick and hospitalized, her son not only came to visit her every day, but also cooked soup and cooked for her, and this meticulous care made her deeply feel his son's love for her.
4. Listen to your children's inner words
Words are the voice of the heart. "Our children are willing to share their joys and sorrows with us, which shows that they trust us and rely on us.
My colleague Xiao Li's daughter encountered emotional distress during college, and she immediately called ** to confide in her mother.
This kind of frank communication made Xiao Li feel very gratified, because she knew that her daughter always had her place in her heart.
5. Pay attention to the actions your children have done for you
Actions speak louder than words. "Sometimes, our children's love for us doesn't necessarily mean it, but they do it through their actions.
For example, a friend of mine received a handmade greeting card and a bouquet of flowers from his son on his birthday. Although her son didn't say too many sweet words, this heart made her feel warm and touched.
Through the observation of the above five small details, we can find out whether there is a place for us in the hearts of our children, which is not an elusive thing.
As long as we pay close attention to their words and deeds, we can feel the deep affection and love. Of course, as parents, we must also learn to give our children love and support in a timely manner, so that they can feel the warmth and strength of the family.
Conclusion:
Filial piety comes first. "In this fast-paced society, family harmony is still our eternal pursuit. By observing the small details of our children, we can better understand their inner world, which can deepen the emotional connection between parents and children.
At the same time, we must also understand that family affection needs to be maintained and operated by both parties. Only by understanding and supporting each other can we create a harmonious and happy family together.
I hope that every parent can feel the love of their children from these small details, and I also hope that every child can care for their parents with their hearts, so that the family can become the warmest harbor in our lives.