Children's boredom often stems from unbearable frustration, their inability to cope with their own failures and incompetence, and their inability to withstand criticism from parents and teachers. There are several approaches to changing this reality.
First of all, learn to shut up, stop making negative comments about your child, and no matter what he does, keep your mouth shut, do not criticize or refute.
Secondly, do subtraction, stop all extracurricular classes, only learn Xi knowledge of textbooks, let him do the questions he can do, and the medium questions that he can't do can check the information, and give up the problems directly, so that he can start to have a sense of accomplishment in learning Xi and slowly build up his self-confidence.
Thirdly, set small goals that can be achieved through hard work, and give a celebration ceremony once successful, so that he can feel a sense of accomplishment after achieving the goal, which is the motivation to encourage him to move forward.
Fourth, control the time he spends playing with his mobile phone, not one-size-fits-all, but it must be timed and quantitative. It's a very hard process, but it's important to design a plan in advance, make an appointment with your child, and be resolute and uncompromising.
Fifth, for a child who is lazy and tired of school, if you don't care about him now and let him develop, he will definitely not be admitted to high school. Do you want to go to vocational high school?I believe that after the child finishes vocational high school, you and I are very clear about the future.
Sixth, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, if you want your child to have a good future, and there is no good educational thinking and methods, you have to learn Xi. This is a responsible parent, and your child will thank you in the future!
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