As the saying goes: Death is to save face, and life is sinful.
In real life, in order to have face in front of friends, people who do not hesitate to borrow money to support themselves according to their actual situation and do face-saving work are to say that it is ugly to die.
face, maybe you can do enough, you can also hold enough. But looking back, I spent a lot of unjust money, and my heart was so distressed that my teeth were verbose, and I owed a lot of debts, which is a living sin.
Often afterwards, there are both regrets and worries. What I regret is why I had to take on debts for the sake of a little face. What worries me is that the rest of the days, eating steamed buns every day is too luxurious.
Once upon a time, the slogan that was often on the lips of such people was:
I'd rather skip breakfast and have Hongta Mountain in my pocket.
Even if you eat boiled radish and boiled cabbage at home every day, you have to wear a suit and leather shoes and tie when you go out.
Whenever friends gather, drink and eat, people who love face also like to rush to pay. But in my heart, I hope that someone will come to fight with me. If the bill costs a large amount, they will deliberately pretend that they really can't compete with friends, so they have to pay for it by someone else. But he was still saying: Okay, okay, next time I will definitely pay for it, and no one is allowed to fight with me again. But if the amount is small, it is a must-win to settle the bill.
There used to be a security team in the unit, Captain Li, whose family was in another province, and he came out to work alone. rented a house, a month's salary, after deducting five insurances and one housing fund, more than 6,000, 2,000 a month to go home to his wife and children, and only kept 4,000 for himself. I don't smoke or drink, plus the unit includes lunch and dinner, so I can save about 2,000 a month.
During the Spring Festival last year, I don't know which nerve he suddenly short-circuited, so he quietly took out a loan to buy a car worth about 100,000 yuan, and in the envious eyes of his team members, he drove home for the New Year with vigor, and drove back to work after the New Year.
According to his team members, the captain was not very happy when he drove home for the New Year, because several people in the same village drove luxury cars home for the New Year. Captain Li, who originally wanted to go home for the scenery, has been depressed since he came back. Later, there was still an older team member, and an unintentional sentence helped him untie the knot: Captain Li, maybe the few people in your village who drive luxury cars are rented.
When Captain Li heard what the team members said, he figured it out in his heart. But the latter questions, one after another.
The first is to repay the loan, which is more than 2,000 per month. When I went home during the Spring Festival, in order to win glory for my face, the thousands of years of year-end bonuses had already been spent. Later, I borrowed money from a few team members and made up enough money to pay off the monthly payment.
The second is the cost of fuel. The new car ran back and forth when it came home, and the car was parked downstairs in the rental house and never drove again.
The rental house is about a 10-minute walk away from the unit, and it is not necessary to commute by car. Said that driving out on the weekend is unbearable for gas.
Therefore, the car has been parked there, and occasionally there is a lot of dust, leaves, and bird droppings, so I drive to the company at night to wash it.
Finally, there is the parking fee. Because the popularity of vehicles is so fast, parking spaces have become a nuisance. Residents around the rental house have allocated their own parking spaces, and outsiders are charged for parking. This problem is undoubtedly worse for Captain Li.
Fortunately, I heard that Captain Li planned to dispose of the car, but his car did not retain its value very much, and there was a loan.
However, according to his current economic situation and the use of the car, it is more realistic to sell the car. At least, it's an enlightenment. If you carry it hard, it may be worse.
All in all, be a man, don't swell your face and pretend to be fat for the sake of face.
It is true that one must live with dignity and dignity. But face is not decency, let alone dignity.
To put it simply, decency is: be a good person.
Dignity is: it is not owed to anyone.
Follow me and don't get lost on the road of love.